Why is it so hard for a person to commit? see below?

Question

Now a days I see people dating living together hearing of people having sex together with no resource or thought of a life long marriage commitment. Why are so many content with this way of life. Years ago you met a person they grew in love a man proposed marraige but prior to that asked the fathers permission
there were honorable intention you got married and THEN had sex not the other way around. Why are people so non commital these days?

Answer 1

Most people dont value the sacredness of marriage it just a piece of paper to them they got to try before they buy it. Others are just out to have fun not realizing they are hurting themselves, they lack moral standards.

Answer 2

the world has changed but not that much --- there was a lot of pre marital sex at any time --- it was not talked about --- now its out in the open and people discuss it

and a lot of marriages where to find a sex partner and so many got married when they were pregnant

Answer 3

well, these days, dont ask me why but, man have grown ti be fascinated by sex alot.just look around, verything has a dirtymeaning, halloween costumes have a dirty versions for gods sake.so thats why.men are all about sex.thats how the whole world has frikin AIDS.and it's not like one man is obsessed, oh no.it's more like for every million who are, theres only 1 who isnt.to me it looks like corruption.theres teenage mothers who the father of course abandoned them.i guess thy really don't understand that sex has consequences like, oh, i don tknow...PRGNANACY.and really, what was sex meant for? HAVING BABIES.not for pleasure. i know every single man who reads this is going to hate me but i really don't care.they need to grow up.am i right or am i right?

Answer 4

its not hard unless the person is insecure