Actually am 5.5, but he think everybody who is not model height is not good enough. Has anybody had that problem and what should I do about it.
BTW he is only 5.9.
2006-12-12 14:55:07 · 30 answers · asked by Mistyfog 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him to knock it the F off. If he doesn't, choose a part of his anatomy that he is particularly sensitive about and do the same thing to him. It should shut him up quick.
2006-12-12 14:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? Most guys (especially guys his height) LOVE short women -- much more than tall ones. I happen to think they're a godsend. So don't envy the tall ones! He sounds like he's WAY WAY too picky and kinda weird too. Since you're married, I guess you should try to work this out. Tell him that you can't do anything about it and it makes you feel bad when he points it out. If he keeps that kind of attitude up, I think you might be happier getting a divorce and finding a guy who can appreciate you. Good night!
Oh yeah . . . I think you're both exactly average in height. So all these people calling him short are wrong. I only called you short because you're shorter than me. I'm only 5' 7" or 5' 8" myself, and I just can't seem to get attracted to girls my height. So girls shorter than me are very nice. Good night!
2006-12-12 15:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to straighten that out or hit the curb. Get over himself. 5'9" and he is talking. Did your shink since you got married or did your being 5'5'' change your personality any. I would give him a little 5'5" attitude and get up on that chair and kick his *** Noone has any right making you feel bad about yourself. If you tell him to stop that bothers you, then he should stop. Besides how shallow is he. Noone under model hight is good enough. Hu how rude. Well not that this will help you any but your taller than I am.
2006-12-12 15:04:56 · answer #3 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy sounds like he has a major Napoleonic complex! Tell him to get over himself and that at least your height is in the average range for a woman...what does he think that 4 inches makes him Paul Bunyan? That is very rude and inconsiderate of him...maybe you could tell him that when he grows a few inches then you can talk...or tell him how much you love tall guys, like 6' 4"
2006-12-12 15:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5.5 is average not short and for a man he isn't all that tall, most men are more like 6 ft. He knew how tall you were when he married you didn't he, I mean you didn't shrink did you? Tell him to knock it off, ignore him and don't let him make you feel bad about yourself. Be proud of who you are. Start telling him he is too short for a man, or his feet are too small (if you get it) or something and see how he likes it.
2006-12-12 14:59:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for someone who has a problem with it, he sure made a life long commitment to someone who not to his standards... i'm 5'3, and my sister is 4'11... height is not what makes the person. and 5'9 isn't that tall for a man.
It would make me feel bad too, if my ex hubby would have done that through our marriage. Let him know how it affects you, and size does not make the person. I'm sure there are a few things you could judge him on, that would make him feel just as bad as he made u feel... he wouldn't appreciate it very much if you started telling him crap..... don't take it, it will just make u miserable in the long run. stand your ground.
2006-12-12 15:00:38 · answer #6 · answered by hotchicka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch him, love. He obviously doesn't love u or he would not make derogatory comments about u. I'm sorry, to be so blunt, but, ur too good for him, love.
I'm 5' 3". Ur not really short, love.
Models r usually false and have eating disorders, anyway.
If I were U, I'd tell him HE'S not good enough and toss him out on the pavement.
2006-12-12 15:27:25 · answer #7 · answered by kiwi_mum1966 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I comprehend your challenge. You grew to change into to somebody else to get what's lacking on your marriage. i have been married for 35 years and on the instantaneous i struggle through an same element. My better 0.5 in no way thinks he incorrect. i comprehend it truly is scary yet when he doesn't appreciate you then you favor to divorce him. sounds like your youthful adequate to nevertheless make a existence for your self and locate someone which will appreciate you and do not settle for something a lot less.
2016-11-26 00:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't "make" you, you chose to feel that way. Why? You are taller than the average height for a woman..he is shorter than the average height for a man...
Next time he calls you short, make sure he knows which of you actually IS short.
2006-12-12 14:58:34 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he is not even model height. Why did he marry you if you are not good enough. I would imagine that people are calling him short so he is feeling bad about himself. You don't have to feel bad about yourself, don't let him do that to you. Just ignore what he says.
2006-12-12 15:06:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, well I asure have felt bad when some of the girls have called me short as well. What is it with some people. Do they just have to pick on short.
Tell him he is short as well and see if e likes it. That is if he is less than a foot.
2006-12-12 15:06:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋