what do you do when you fall in love with your bestfriend? and maybe he fell in love with you too?
2006-12-12 14:53:08 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You take it slow. When you fall for your best friend it may seem to be the best of both world but you have to be careful because you both know each other very well. This may seem like a plus but you have to take into consideration that when you start dating a guy you don't know anything about him, everything is new and wonderful-in the beginning-but this is what bonds people. In your case you probably hang out with him in your sweats with your hair undone and it's no problem. Yet when your together everything changes, you just have to find a way to make a middle ground, between friend (you) and girlfriend (you). A lot of times when a girl changes all together a guy/girl may feel like I want my friend back. SO take it slow and make sure it's something you both want to do. Good luck to you both
2006-12-12 15:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by moks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And your problem is??? Enjoy your good luck. It is hard to find someone you love, and you fall in love with your best friend too... Top of the world to you and him. Just remember, if you break up, you loose both a lover and your best friend.
2006-12-12 23:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you both fell in love, what is the problem? Being friends first can only help you. Enjoy
2006-12-12 22:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats what your supposed to do, fall in love with some one who is a good friend, you start out as friends first then move to a deeper relationship.
2006-12-12 22:55:57 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evaluate if you guys are really compatible as lovers and not just two lonely friends. You don't want to lose the friendship if both of your feelings have been misguided. If you really think you truly care for each other, than I think you should give it a go.
2006-12-12 22:56:06 · answer #5 · answered by kimison_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go for it...it's always great to be friends with the person first, but remember if it doesn't work out things will never be the same...but other than that I would go for and best of luck!
2006-12-12 22:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by Jerr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel..if he's a true best friend even if he doesn't feel the same way he will still be there and if he does thats great you can never ask for a better guy than your best friend
2006-12-12 22:57:22 · answer #7 · answered by xASHx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how well you two handle relationships. Will you still be able to be friends if it doesnt work out. Good luck. Sometimes best friends unions are the best.
2006-12-12 22:55:35 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very cautious.. A lot of relationships end in heartache and you could risk losing your best friend!
But you will never know unless you try... Good luck
2006-12-12 22:57:02 · answer #9 · answered by itza_mea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a mutual friend feel out if he likes you before you let on that you like him. If it turns out he likes you, and you are both compatible with each other, then go for it, and if not, and you truly value his friendship, get over him.
2006-12-12 22:56:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋