Well, my fiancee has to get a new job in januray where he wont be able to come in on the weekends ( he goes to college mon-fri 2 hrs away ) and so he wants to to move in with him. Which I want to.
But his room mate use to have the biggest crush on me and I heart his feelings in the process because I didn't like him back. So now he is always bad mouthing me all the time.
Ive tried telling him he shouldn't act like he is in high school and just be mature about it so we can be friends but he wont have it
So both of my fiancee roommates pretty much bad mouth me for it and don't like me ( i know it is stupid of them to act that way )
I seriously want to live with him but I don't want to cause problems or have to put up with any of that.
Any advice or similar situations?
Thanks everyone
2006-12-12 14:51:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what does my question have to do with him cheating?
HE wants me to MOVE in....that doesn't make sense at all....I know is isn't cheating.
2006-12-12 14:54:51 · update #1
hes cheating on you
2006-12-12 14:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by J-Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi ashly d !!!
Please, do yourself a favor, keep away from the roommate but also from your boyfriend!!!!
How in the world, your boyfriend is going to suggest for you to move with him, in those conditions???
It seems to me your boyfriend is a bit egoistical, thinking about the benefits of having you there, but is missing the boat, to actually putting you in that negative situation.
Anyway , you have to decide, but if I were you sweetie. I stay where I feel comfortable, knowing is my own place, do what ever I please, whenever I please.
Let your boyfriend go, this will be a good chance of knowing how much this relationship is worth!!!!
If it last, I already hear wedding bells. If not, you save yourself from a lot of headaches a heart ships!!!!
Moving in , those conditions is already negative, nothing good is going to come out of it,
Picture yourself constantly, battling that situation, or giving in ti him, which will make the situation very dangerous for yourself!!!
Be smart, don't do it!!! Stay by yourself, you'll be better off.
MERRY CHRISTMAS & HAPPY NEW YEAR
Some one that cares!!!
ALLIV Z
2006-12-12 23:07:44 · answer #2 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say if you 2 can't get a place without his roommates, then don't move in with him. It will be a home filled with tension and stress and you will never feel relaxed around them. Save your money and get a place together without his roommates. That is the only way it will work for you.
2006-12-12 22:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your fiancee about everything. Tell him you want to move in, but feel uncomfortable around his roommates. If he wants you bad enough, maybe he'll kick his roommates out.
2006-12-12 22:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't move in and your fiance should move out. There is no way that those are "friends" if they talk about his wife. If he does not stand up for you he is not the guy for you. You two should get a place together.
2006-12-13 15:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by Twinkles 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move in anyways....the hell with his friends!!! he is your fiancee and you come first, if he chooses them over you in the fights..then you will know if he is worth it in the first place..Go for it!!
2006-12-12 22:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by hatchetmistress 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Any way you can ditch the roomate and get a place of your own?
2006-12-12 22:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by freedove06 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell your fiance the situation. if a guy is still pissed that you turned him down, hes a loser. i hope you fix everything
2006-12-12 23:14:27 · answer #8 · answered by blu3_p1x1_st1x 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋