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First date, and I need topics

2006-12-12 14:50:01 · 6 answers · asked by Calamity 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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music, beej, movies, beej, hobbies, beej

2006-12-12 14:52:09 · answer #1 · answered by J-Dub 3 · 0 1

Here are some topics you may be able to discuss about on your first date to make it a success.

What kind of type are you attracted to? - This is some very valuable information to learn from your date. Once you know what kind of turns him/her on, you can try to adopt your personality traits and character traits to fit her/his needs in a partner. If you can't live up to the expectations in a partner, then perhaps it's not the right partner for you.

1.People specially women love to talk about their friends - Just simply ask about her/his circle of friends. Talk about how they met, what they like to do when they hang out together, the good times they have had together, places they have been, etc.


2.Ask what she/he likes to do in her free time - This is very important information to know to determine if you have any common interests. Truly compatible couples share common interests. If you don't like the same things, this can cause problems in a relationship. It would also be helpful to ask about hobbies. Who knows, you may both enjoy the same hobbies and this can create a strong bond between you.


3.Do you have any brothers or sisters? - Most single people have a brother or sister and this is a safe topic for discussion. Your date will usually be willing and open to talk about their brother or sister. Hopefully, it will be positive feedback about them.


4.Have you been anywhere lately or been on a vacation? - People in general like to talk about the places they have been and their travel experiences. Try to get your date to talk about the sites and places she/he would like to visit. This way you can offer to take your date there and make her/his dreams come true. Plus, your date may mention some places you've been and you both can share your experiences.

Women will never give away all of their secrets, but here are a few to keep you on track.

Instructions
•STEP 1: Dress nicely. The average woman changes her clothes four times before she leaves the house. Don't embarrass your date by showing up mismatched.
•STEP 2: Be careful with the compliments. "You look nice," gives a woman no information. "I love your shoes," wins extra points.
•STEP 3: Call if you say you will. If you don't, you're a liar and a jerk - expect to be treated like one.
•STEP 4: Don't talk about your ex, her ex, your mother, or your medications.
•STEP 5: Be you. You don't have to impress your date with tales of big money, kicking someone's butt, or fast cars. In fact, she's likely to stifle a yawn as you bluster.
•STEP 6: Tell your date what you like about her. Be sincere and don't focus on the physical.
•STEP 7: Be considerate ' for example, call if you'll be late. If you don't show up, don't expect another chance.

Tips & Warnings
•Don't drink too much on a date. Of course, you're nervous, but you're also sloppy and say stupid things when you do that.
•Don't look at other women when you're on a date.

2006-12-12 22:54:58 · answer #2 · answered by Christine 3 · 0 0

usually a woman likes for a man to listen to her ,not so much talk but....interesting conversations: ask her about her goals and future plans. what she is interested in(hobbies favorite foods,pets,experiences) . avoid talking about past relationships and experiences with the other sex
be yourself and everything should be good

2006-12-12 22:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by iyxix 1 · 0 0

Talking about what you both like, what you might like to do. Just try to get an idea of what she is like and if she is into stuff you like in a girl.

2006-12-12 22:55:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Just ask her lots of questions about herself. Girls love talking about themselves.

2006-12-12 22:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by Sara 4 · 0 0

well you start by asking her things about her what she likes and dont like then find the common ground and run with it and for pete's sake dont do the yawn arm stretch please its so obvious so just put your arm around her with out the yawn

2006-12-12 22:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by colvin0594 3 · 0 0

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