I'm a heterosexual female and have a secret thing for gay guys (the ones that don't act feminine)...even if I'm aware of the fact that they're gay, I still get turned on by them...I don't really know what it is; it's nothing more than an infatuation and I find them so appealing and interesting, especially if they're from the United Kingdom!
And just to make it clear, I'm not questioning my sexuality or anything of the sorts...I just wanted to know whether there's a hidden meaning to my obsession!
Thanks is advance =D
P.S.: Please, don't be rude...=)
P.P.S.: Serious answers are preferred =)
2006-12-12 14:41:09 · 17 answers · asked by ♥WestlifeForLife♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HAHA...good one zellparis! =D
2006-12-12 14:46:32 · update #1
Actually jeff, my dad's always been there...ever since I was born, so I don't think that's the "problem"
2006-12-12 14:47:31 · update #2
The whole "wanting what you can't have" thing makes so much sense...I'm surprised I hadn't thought of it before... =D
2006-12-12 14:49:31 · update #3
Also, a lot of times I find myself wishing I had a gay best-guy-friend...
2006-12-12 14:53:22 · update #4
I don't think there's anything abnormal about liking a gay guy, especially if it's not outwardly apparent that he is gay. I think it's something about that they (mostly) actually listen to what you have to say, respect you more and other things than many straight guys do. I used to be best friends with a guy (we only lost touch cuz we no longer live close to each other) and even though I knew he was gay I couldn't help but fall for him because he is everything I want in a guy, with the exception of not being heterosexual. Such is life...
wish you the best of luck finding a special guy that makes you happy though :)
2006-12-12 14:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Before I begin, i would like to say that I also feel UK guys are HOTT, well all european guys for that matter!
But really now, he still has his manly features and his sexual preference has nothing to do with his sexiness..get it right!.. there is nothing wrong with you at all babes. You see a man that looks great and he turns you on - so natural. Also the fact that he doesn't act feminine makes him even more attractive until you remind yourself that you're not his type.
The only obsession you may have is the love of sexy men, which is said for most females so in turn it isn't really an obsession at all. (Well unless you purposedly pick out the gay guys and hit on them) I doubt that's the case here though!
2006-12-12 14:53:38 · answer #2 · answered by ycaira 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean anything wierd. It makes sense, most gay men are more in touch with there 'feminine' side. This doesn't mean they wear a dress or anything they just listen and you get along better. You probably just feel more comfortable around them since there is no pressure. Not to mention there is always the fact of "you want what you can't have". Just please, whatever you do, don't think you can change a gay man straight. You'll get very hurt in the end.
2006-12-12 14:46:20 · answer #3 · answered by a 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I find mafia guys appealing and a turn on, but I don't want to date/sleep/marry them. Do you want to BE with a gay guy or is this like a closet thing? If you are interested ONLY in them, I think there's an issue because you know they're not available.
2006-12-12 14:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by Ade 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No hidden meaning but don't waste your time if you're expecting a sexual relationship. Not even considering the increased risk of sexually transmitted diseases, you're not going to change something that's biological. You'll frustrate yourself expecting something from a relationship that's impossible to achieve. Don't make life more complex than it already is. Friends are great and complex at best. Lovers are much more complex without even considering whether or not someone is gay or straight.
2006-12-12 14:48:51 · answer #5 · answered by Thomas C 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know many bi-/homosexuals who have "discreet" Facebooks - some things you don't want certain family members, friends, or work people to know. Winking is a pretty sure sign of flirting, people don't do that for no reason. But if you don't like him like that, what difference does it make? Unless you're thinking that you could hang out more as friends and it might blossom into more?
2016-05-23 16:44:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deep down it could be a thing with being committed. If you were to actually be with a gay guy you know he would not be able to commit to you all the way.Or it just might be that you have seen really hot gay guys. It could be something from your pass that you have just surpressed.
2006-12-12 14:51:38 · answer #7 · answered by J J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it is probably because they look so good, normally gay men are very clean, dress well, smell good, take very good care of themselves. So you are attracted to them because they are handsome. The only issue is they are gay. They want and are looking for the same things in a relationships that you are a hard penis. God bless****
2006-12-12 14:46:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think thatu are normal like most women are.. ithink we women are intrigued by gay men.. cuz we relate to them and are more in tune with them than veres a straigth guy.. they understnad us and apprieaiate us more then a straight one does.. straight guys dont wanna hear it at all and they like to call it DRAMA when a girl tries to open him up.. they think if they are sentitive that they are gay or girly.. so i think its cool.. i have several gay guy friends about 3 are girly like and 4 of them are gay but they can relate to me alot better.. so i mean its all good
dont get freaked out about it!
2006-12-12 14:49:39 · answer #9 · answered by Shelly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I think most girls have a thing for gay guys. I mean they are men, but they are sensitive and want to talk to you. Oh, the irony!
2006-12-12 14:44:07 · answer #10 · answered by makingthisup 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋