My gf broke up with me & i even though i ask her to give me a chance she says no, she lost me for good. Her feelings 4 me changed over time and even though she told me before there was a problem i didnt listen & now it's late. Now she says there is no way to love me back & her mind wont change later. she still wants 2 be friends but if i cant accept it & tried to ask her to get back, she would get mad and not even be friends anymore. Today we went to eat to celebrate that she is done with her finals. On the way to her house i tried to convince to take me back but it wasnt good. In fact she ended up angry at me and told me that if i force this way she wouldnt even be my friend. i told her not to starts as bf&gf but to start with more than friends and she says no & her mind wont change. I told her to give time and maybe she'll change her mind, and she thens tells me that if she thinks i deserve a chance & she wants to she will give it 2 me but to not expect nothing like that. what to do!
2006-12-12 14:40:54 · 3 answers · asked by AL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
more info. we dated for 51/2 yrs and now she says that she knows herself and that her mind wont change with time, so i would be wasting my time if i wait 4 an opportunity.
But today she told me that if i deserve a chance she would give it to me and she feels comfortable with it. Do u think she told me so i wouldnt have to push it or she really meant it. I love her, and being friends is hard. what is she starts dating soon? how long should i wait to talk about this with her?
how should i act as a friend with her? my feelings always tries to kiss her and hug her. I know i cant do that, so what to do?
should i try to go out with her as friends a lot so she can give me a chance or barely see her and be patient?
how do i show her my feelings without she thinking that i'm asking her to take me back??
Please help!...
2006-12-12 14:41:12 · update #1
I would back off and stop hanging around her awhile. Maybe she needs to have absence to make her heart grow fonder. If thats not the case, maybe she already found someone else. Or she was very young when you started dated and she has just grown out of you. It's sad but true and it happens. Good luck
2006-12-12 14:48:30 · answer #1 · answered by Chicago Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i think you should do is back away and let the time pass but for her i would let her go if shes not willing to be with you after five years
then she done being friends with her is only gonna make you hurt so i think you she find something or some one to take the place of her because theres always someone better and one for you so just keep your head high and leave it alone
2006-12-12 23:00:30 · answer #2 · answered by latinlover33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sux 4 u! y'd u break up with her in the first place. if u really luved her u wouldn't have and u would have thot of her b4 u> dumazz. u know i have this guy friend just lyk u. u guys r losers. no offense but don't u think u deserve a little pain when u pretty much broke her heart and smashed it into two pieces????
2006-12-12 22:45:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋