When dating romantically or casually... do you prefer a guy who is open about his sexuality (especially towards you), or a guy who keeps his distance. And if he keeps his distance, how long does that last before it gets old to you? I personally walk around with the myth that women need to be convinced into sex, and keep my distance out of respect. But if I do, I suddenly have "no balls" or might be gay. Obviously, this gets me nowhere. Whereas if I'm open about sex in general I get better participation from a women. Seriously, what gives with that?
2006-12-12 14:39:09 · 12 answers · asked by blah_blah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would prefer someone who is open and honest. Dont play games and waste my time...if I am interested I am interested if not I will let the guy know_
2006-12-12 14:42:23 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What gives? Perhaps it's your odd attitude that "I personally walk around with the myth that women need to be convinced into sex"
Get beyond that, and you'll be on the right track...if she's into you, no convincing is needed...just don't try to jump her bones on the first date...we know that trick of 1st date seduction then dumping...
2006-12-12 22:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should continue on the way you are. If you change who you are and your beliefs in approaching sex, then you could run the risk of winding up with someone that isn't really for you. If you stick with your guns, then you are more likely to find a suitable partner.. As a single woman, i wish there were more men like yourself.
2006-12-12 22:43:38 · answer #3 · answered by kimison_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look women dont like their bones to be jumped. just casually creep on the sub. slowly. You will get more action if you go slow then all of a sudden BAM! You can catch more flies with honey than vinegar.Give her hand a squeeze and a kiss on the cheek. If she likes that give her kiss ( small one) on the lips and she how she reacts to that. Just dont be pushy. It'll work.
2006-12-12 22:47:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the 21st century thats what gives. Be open but not rude or lude. Women like a man that takes charge but isnt too over whelming. You wait too long and we get bored. Keep the charm tho....
2006-12-12 22:42:54 · answer #5 · answered by Chicago Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being the aggressor is a role some people feel more comfortable with, if that's not you why does that bother you. It's very refreshing not having a guy trying to get into your pants every time you turn around.
2006-12-12 22:42:28 · answer #6 · answered by bridgette c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I do not know what sort of horney 'hoes you been dating but if a guy comes right out with his sexuality on the first date or so, I am outta there fast. who wants a lech? Ya want sex, go to the pros. Show some respect.
2006-12-12 22:43:13 · answer #7 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know. What girls are you hanging around?
Personally, I don't even brush upon the subject until I feel I'm ready. I can assure you, it depends on the woman. Some like to wait, and some like to do it right away.
2006-12-12 22:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by beelz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if a girl is interested if sex sometimes they'll want to talk about it. Many girls are shy about talkin to someone they dont really know about sex. They have to be very comfortable around you. Some girls are open some girls are not. Me personally, would not talk to someone about sex if I dont know them well.
2006-12-12 22:44:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
opening up is the best and women do love men who are open...
2006-12-12 22:44:53 · answer #10 · answered by For peace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋