I try to be as sweet as I can, as much of a gentleman, and as good a friend as i can... but ha, nothing i seem to do really makes this girl notice. Any ideas?
2006-12-12 14:34:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there are a lotta things that would make me fall in love with a guy... such as a charming personality, a good trusting friend, being a sweet gentleman, having a good sense of humor/making me laugh, someone who loves & is good with kids, and as far as looks a melting smile and some deep eyes are very attractive.
hope my answer helped... and if you are sweet, a gentleman and a good friend as you say, then you sound perfectly good to me.
2006-12-12 14:42:52 · answer #1 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this may sound so old and cliche, but it may actually not be you, it could really be her. you can be the nicest, sweetest, most romantic person ever, but maybe she's just not into you. I've had guys persue me, and there wasn't anything wrong with them, i just wasn't attracted to them on that level. It actually may be a good thing that you guys aren't together, because it's bad for someone to go with a person just because they feel bad for them. So all i can say is stay hopeful!!! trust me, being a kind gentleman will get you somewhere, with a great girl who deserves you. Just sometimes things are out of your control and you have to realize that you can't really force someone to like you if it's just not there.
Good luck!!!! Keep looking; there's great girls out there! :)
2006-12-12 22:39:49 · answer #2 · answered by Just a girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, love is not what you do, it is what you feel. You can't make anyone fall in love with you. Believe me if that were the case no one would be lonely.
Be yourself, that is the best you can be. Don't worry the right will come your way when you least expect it. So just go out and have some fun.
2006-12-12 22:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by asking away 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a guy does little things for me to help me out. That's what makes my heart melt. It shows you care about her. Which is everything. Some girls like it when you say nice things about or to them, and some girls like getting little presents. You need to find out what makes her feel special. Then do that. Best wishes.
2006-12-12 22:44:52 · answer #4 · answered by Ripplediane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she likes agressive guys or bad boys... Try asking her what type of boys she likes but in a jokingly-friendly way so it won't give her the impression that you like her. Atleast not yet.
2006-12-12 22:41:53 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flurt be funny try to show her that u r not just another boy. girls think that guys will make the frist move love is hard dont stop trying
2006-12-12 22:39:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a chick. Or pretend to have one. It makes a girl realise she's jealous of new girl moving in on her friend!!!
2006-12-12 22:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by Alexis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk with her as much as u can and compliment..my stomach turns to butterflies when the guy I like talks and compliments me...Ask her what she likes..movies/music/etc...When she drops something pick it up.U know..just don't act fake or anything...like..stalking or whatever
2006-12-12 22:42:36 · answer #8 · answered by mayFRE$H! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something for her that is really creative. this one guy asked me to go to homecoming. instead of just plain out asking me, he numbered balloons and had me pop them in order. each balloon had a different word inside. when i had popped all of them, i read the little papers. they spelled out will you go to homecoming with me. do something like this but make it holiday-ish. you get what I'm saying. good luck!!!!!
2006-12-12 22:43:10 · answer #9 · answered by pinkballerina101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just don't give up. If you are a real sweetheart either she will notice or someone else will.
2006-12-12 22:39:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋