sorry this will be kind of long but....
im in 10 grade and theres this girl i like whos in 10 grade too. i have gotten many answers about what should i talk to her and not be so nervous around her...and at times it seems shes interested in me but then other times she doesnt ever talk to me....
and ive asked her to go to the mall or just go hang out with me sometime but she saids she has something to do or she has to see what she has to do...and shes said this before
now im just wondering if i should keep askin her to do something or try to get her to be more interested in me becuase i know i cant make her like me but i really like her and it just makes me feel bad whenever i think that she doesnt like me
or should i just move on and get over her or something
i appreciate any answers
thank you
2006-12-12 14:33:21 · 9 answers · asked by JoE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if i do move on from this girl i still will like her for some reason i know i can get over her but its really hard and..
if i continue to like her will it only hurt me later because she isnt interested in me ?
just wonderin
2006-12-12 14:48:01 · update #1
It might be that your nervousness is turning her off.
Girls aren't attracted to guys who appear nervous.
You'll have to start acting more sure and confident of yourself, probably.
That is my guess.
I would continue to make brief conversation with her and try to win her interest back.
Being seen with gut friends and joking around or talking together scores a lot of points with girls.
Try it and then see how she reacts to you. How she views you should improve!
GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-12 14:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All this time and effort would be better put into someone who is interested in you and appreciates you. Bet you there's that girl out there who would love all that attention that you are giving this one, who doesn't even want to give you the time of day. I say move on.
2006-12-12 22:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say it but shes not interested take it from me im in 11th grade andi had a crush on this girl i really really liked her she would talk to me during class but only when there was no one else for her to talk to i finally relized i was just some1 to talk to even though she had no feelings for me i just said forget her and i moved on dont waste ur time on some1 if they dont like u there r plenty of other girls for u to date you just have to find that right 1, im still looking......
2006-12-12 22:37:18 · answer #3 · answered by HanginByAMoment 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't keep on asking her because then it becomes intimidating. but really tell her how you feel and say that you like her more than a friend and that if she doesn't like you the way you like her than you would understand and she would probably actually like you more because you are a very understandable guy
2006-12-12 22:38:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by the way it sounds, move on. I am sure she like the fact that you are giving her attention, but it doesn't sound like she is interested in you. sorry.
2006-12-12 22:37:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could try playing hard to get which is showing less and giving her less attention and maybe she'll start to gain interest, but it's a risk.
2006-12-12 22:35:44 · answer #6 · answered by playboy10888 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop asking her....sounds like she might not be interested. If she is she will mention it to you_
2006-12-12 22:36:08 · answer #7 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should move on. Look for someone else.
2006-12-12 22:35:43 · answer #8 · answered by mamabear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just keep asking her. she will come to her senses sooner or later.
2006-12-12 22:36:01 · answer #9 · answered by pinkballerina101 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋