MIDDLE SCHOOL BULLYING...Is THERE A WAY OUT?

Question

ok in my school there r a certain type of group the...populars...lately there targets been ...me.they started making rumors likemy dads in jail(which is a lie!) callin me a bich a prostitute and stuff like that. and i need help is in 4 of my classes i sit with THEE QUEEN BEE the most popular girl. she is as stupid as she is beautiful i mean come on i said aberham lincon is dead she says he's in pre-school. but sheis not stupid when she's out to get my self asteem. i need help suggestions anything. plz help.

ps:im puttin it inthe dating area becuz thers more experieced ppl.

Answer 1

wanna know the SAD asss truth? You wanna stop them from bullying you, find out who the MAIN MOUTH of the group is and walk up to them WITHOUT looking like youre threatening at all, walk up like you wanted to ask something about school and SUDDENLY knock the FUCCCK out of them AND DONT STOP hitting until they cry like a BITTCH. You puase for even a moment and you will regret it, hit them and dont stop till they cry- and then say "NOW SAY SOME MORE SHIIT About my family BITTCH!" and THAT moment, even though you will get suspended for a few days- THAT MOMENT will END IT ALL for those asssholes bothering you. It wont be easy to psyche yourself into it, but trust me, that only way to STOP asssholes like that- is to find out who the one is who leads them into shiit, and knock the ***** out of them. THey will NEVER say a damnn word about you from that day forward- EVER again.

And thats the Sad truth about it. You have to BECOME an assshole for ONE MOMENT to STOP asssholes from bringing you down everyday.

talking to a teacher WILL NOT HELP YOU. TRUST ME. It will PISS the kids off, you want respect, TAKE IT by GIVING THEM REASON To shut their damnn mouthes.

Answer 2

They've all been fun, with mostly good things and just a few bad things about each one. But I think I'd still say elementary and middle school were better, just because they were more stress-free. High school has been fun, but there is just a little more stress involved because your grades start to really count and you really have to make sure you do well in your classes. You have to start thinking about your future and college and whatnot, and it can be overwhelming. Elementary and middle school were a little more carefree. I can't pick between elementary and middle though, because they were both so much fun for me! I guess I could say elementary since it was the easiest and I had the least amount of homework, haha. And since pretty much everyone was friends and there weren't a bunch of cliques and stuff. You could just go up to anyone at recess and play, and the wouldn't judge you. Even though that kind of stuff gets pretty common in middle school (cliques, people being judgmental, etc.), I managed to escape that since I just stayed with my friends and didn't try to hang around the "popular" crowd. I've heard that a lot of people had a horrible time in middle school, but I actually had a lot of fun. I just had really awesome friends, and I loved most of my teachers in middle school too, so that was also what made it good. I've had a lot of good school years, and I can't possibly pick one, so I'll just pick one from each school. 4th grade was my best year of elementary school, 7th grade was by far the best middle school year, and so far, I think my senior year has been my best high school year (I'm a senior right now). Junior year was pretty good too though.

Answer 3

Ignore the guy who says to beat the crap out of the girl because the only thing that will get you is a quick road to either Juvy or suspension. My suggestion is to find the leader of the group then walk right on up to her and look her in the eye. Tell her, even if her friends are around, that she either needs to stop or you are going straight to the assistant principal and telling her/him about the rumors she is spreading then tell her you personnally don't care what she says you just don't like someone ruining your reputation in the school. Make sure you aren't yelling at her. When you are done turn your back and leave. If she becomes very angry at you because you have just insulted her in front of her friends the chances are she will attack you. If she does you now have proof of her bullying and can go straight to the office with it once the fight ends. REMEMBER... don't fight back. Make sure there are witnesses to the fight and what you told her so if you feel more comfortable then take one friend and your problem is either solved or your screwed but never show her you care.

Answer 4

play the game. let the bullys win.. your chances that it will screw your mind up and make u start excersesing and making the best of your own life til one day u can "c that helping someone may even mean leaving them alone@,"(u)-don't bite on a bare hook,all psychology cheap shots, and that means you leave them alone, just to let it go, as a biker of some 40 years i would c the problem just to c who was pulled into it. nothing u've said here is anything but a head game, went to school at bloom high school in chicago and we had confrontations and the brains and blood ran before the movies west side story was ever thought up, give the problem no thought cause it will only drag u down, back to the biker story : (don't start no shiiyt and there won't be any)-years from now or in your face memories the problems will be (facts can be found to support anything)@ and as soon as something gets started it will be fabricated and is all one big mess and truth will have been lost so if you go principals now walk away with them and you won't have to fight for them and they seldom get any respect because other people will lie to make things worse so if they can get worse (don't be there) i didn't walk away cause i was afraid, i did it becasue i was deaf and there would alway be the time that i would not know i had made a silent enemy so i looked at the whole lifes situations and decided..world wasn't my fight, but i did grow up to be the counties first martial art teacher and had to do demonstration for the local police who were just learning self defense for the first time..move your life to cing this instructional lessons in school totally suck and there should be laws but that to takes you learning more books on neghotiation & speeking skills so your going to be busy and happy somewhere else in life

Answer 5

Well, the way i would handle it would not be something i would condone. Personally im a junior in high school, but i skipped a grade so im 1-2 yrs younger than everyone esle, heck the freshman are older than me sometimes. So i got kinda violent real quick and stayed that way. Just to get people to back off. So if you get a reputation as someone not to be messed with people will not usually say ANYTHING about you. My suggestion is since your a girl(i think) jsut embarrass her, pants her or somthin, then smack, give her a shiner

Answer 6

I imagine they only do this in a group,Bullys are cowards when there alone.The next time you see one alone ask them what there true problem is with you. If you don't like the answer wich you probably won't. And even if they have the balls to say anything, You kick the living **** out of them, and go right down the line until you here the answer you wanted to here. you got to be a bully to beat a bully. Hit them once or twice for me to!! Or pay for my plane ticket and I will do it for ya!!!

Answer 7

be straght up wiht them and just say wat u feel like saying to them and who cares what they think as loong as it stops them. and if they keep doing it just dont say anything back and ignore them the whole time. every single day. then they will start to relize that u really dont care if thye do bulley u and that u know ur better then them and also they will start getting bored with it and stop bulling u cuz ur just ignoring them and not trying to defend urself. becuz usually thats y people bully eachtoher tosee what the victim will say. GOOD LUCK. and trust me it will work.

Answer 8

hmm... catch her unaware and beat her up? tell your teachers? pour acid and disfigure her face? spread rumours about her having AIDS? say Her moms a Whore and her Dads a gay pole dancer? Say she had sex with the nerdiest Boy in Class? put colouring into her hair spray bottle. Unite among the people and throw her into the big dumpster thingy and cover her with your 13yr old dog's poop? Unite among the people and throw her into the big dumpster thingy and COVER HER WITH YOUR BABY BROS DIAPER! spill Hot EXTRA GRONDAE COFFEE? Trip her? Break into her locker on the period time and steal all her sani pads or tampons then wave it infront of her face in class and run??torture her in gym class. Find and photocopy her diary and distribute among the school. tell her boyfriend that she was two timing? catch her most embaressing moments on tape and post on youtube? tell her parents?cut her hair in history class?

Hope this helps! ^_^

Answer 9

seriously.. ignore them

they are just trying to get a rise out of you

when youre mad at your parents or your sibilings, you want them to react right? and you cant stand it when they dont care

show them that you dont care


and in many cases, all the popular pretty little girls in middle school turn out to be sluts in high school that no one likes.

Answer 10

Get a gun and learn how to use it. Drop one of them dead and the rest should get the hint and leave you alone.