My b/f and I went to WI dells with only two friends on vacation together, and when my friend and her b/f(my b/f's friend) Heard me say that this guy(not my b/f) was really hot, she was all like: You shouldn't say those kinds of things. My b/f knows I would never cheat. Why is it sowrong to check out hot guys when you have a b/f?? It's just a look, not like im cheating, right??
She says it's wrong to even look at other guys. Is she right?? (Some of them lifeguards have gr8 bods)
2006-12-12 14:14:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't phase him, just as it doesn't phase me when he and his friends say girl's are hot. We both know how the other feels.
Is it wrong for a 16 yr old guy to be ok with this?? Should he be jealous??
2006-12-12 14:16:50 · update #1
Theres nothing wrong with looking but u have to remeber that what starts as a thought then becomes a comment then becomes an action so be careful.
2006-12-12 14:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by JP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a personal decision. Some couples are perfectly ok with their partners checking people out and some are very jealous and dont think its ok. This should be a thing between you and your boyfriend not you and your friend. She may feel its not ok to look, but your boyfriend may not mind. So long as it stops at looking, its not cheating, but when it becomes more than looking such as flirting, ignoring your boyfriend or anything else, then its bad. You have a conservative friend who is probably quite jealous and may have been cheated on in the past.
2006-12-12 22:18:55 · answer #2 · answered by cero143_326 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's wrong. It is certain to inspire jealousy and hurt feelings if your boyfriend sees you looking at other guys, even though you say that you wouldn't cheat. It's bound to make him feel like he's not good enough and he can't measure up to those other guys. Some things can be changed (he could work out or something) but some cannot. The same thing goes for him (he shouldn't be gawking at strange girls either). Good night!
2006-12-12 22:21:06 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
missa shut the F*** up ok listen its not cheating at all, u can say people are hot and you can check out people but as long as u dontact u have nothing to worry about, its impossible to not check out the hotties out there but physical attraction is nothing when ur in a relationship ur usually looking for more, i dont get jealous when my GF's say a guy is really hot or something because i know she wont cheat on me and if she does then ill just say f*** her and move on thats it but u cant help a wandering eye just when ur bf's around try not to wonder too much keep it for when ur alone and obviously dont drop ur mouth when u see some1 thats jsut plain rude
2006-12-12 22:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by HanginByAMoment 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tihnk its okay to look at other guys, (not with your bf around) what are you suppose to cover your eyes everytime another guy walks past? i dont want to make this sound rude but your bf might glance at a girl at sometime (doesnt mean anything) so why is it bad for you? theres no physical contact, its not cheating. dont do it a lot, check out the guy but dont say hes hot out loud
2006-12-12 22:17:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would be lying to each other if you said they were the only person that you found attractive. always be open as possible and don't hide things. that will drive you apart. i look and admire the beauty of women, but I don't try to go after them cuz I'm perfectly happy with who I have. and if you do cheat on him, you don't care enough about the relationship not too and it won't last. same thing if he cheats on you.
2006-12-12 22:20:51 · answer #6 · answered by g b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me? i don't think it's called cheating by just looking at someone else. but it's still not a good idea to keep looking at some other guy when you have a boyfriend. i mean how would you feel if you saw your boyfriend looking at some other girl and calling them hot. what would you do? just think about it. good luck! :D
2006-12-12 22:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will stop looking when you are dead. Of course it is normal and healthy to look, if something appears attractive healthy males and females will notice. It is what you do after you look that counts. There is not harm in looking, just in touching. God bless****
2006-12-12 22:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not its not wrong to check out other people, just try not to be too obvious about it so you don't hurt the person's feelings you're with
2006-12-12 22:18:46 · answer #9 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if u think a guy is hot then that just means he's hot. that doesn't mean that u'd pick him over ur bf . just forget what they said and don't let it bother u.
Good Luck-
*girlygirl* 24/7
2006-12-12 22:23:43 · answer #10 · answered by cada-dia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋