I am a twenty year old black female who finds all kinds of men attractive yet I seem to be more enticed by Latin men. I remember I really did not start seeing a lot of latin people until my early teens for some reason. Ever since then I have been battling with wanting to date a latin guy. I met a guy when I was fourteen and he was seventeen. He was really nice to me and we flirted but because of the age difference it did not go anywhere. Now I love being around latin people and I love learning Spanish. I never had a preference in guys. I find all kinds of guys attractive(black,white,asian,and etc.) but for some reason I am still attracted to latin men. My Dad always teases me that I like them because they have wavy or curly hair. This comment hurts me because I am not a person who is superficial. I do not have any problems being a black woman. Sometimes I feel the reason why I tend to like Latin men or latin people because they are a mixture and have such a vibrant culture. Thank you
2006-12-12 14:13:23 · 13 answers · asked by aisha r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess I did not really ask a question. I apologize. My question is should I feel guilty about liking latin men?
2006-12-12 14:18:05 · update #1
Thanks to all the people who provided mature and postive comments. I really appreciate it.
2006-12-12 14:32:28 · update #2
People are attracted to all types. Don't worry about it, don't feel as though you are turning your back on your own race or anything as drastic as that. I am a white woman, who is proud to say that I am with the most beautiful Asian man ever. He is what I was attracted to... Life just turns out a certain way, and whatever choices you make in a partner, just be proud that you are happy and you have gone with your heart.
Thats all that matters..
2006-12-12 14:19:34 · answer #1 · answered by kimison_au 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel guilty about liking Latin men. I'm a white girl, and most of the guys I'm attracted to are Latino. There's nothing wrong with dating outside your race. Don't let anybody ever tell you that.
And they do have a beautiful, vibrant culture. It is very interesting.
2006-12-12 14:22:11 · answer #2 · answered by Me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt feel guilty about being more attracted towards latin guys. Like you said, you find all kinds of guys attractive, and its ok to be more focused on latin men. Try dating a few latin guys and hope everything works out.
2006-12-12 14:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by ernie_casarez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SOUND JUST LIKE ME GIRL!! LOL, except I am a white gal but I love love love Latin men. They are oh so charming and suave with their big brown eyes and compliments ehehe. I also find all men attractive, but for some reason Latin men drive me crazy! :) I love learning Spanish as well and find the culture so neat and enticing. My friends and family also joke around because I communicate with all the hispanics at work so well, and they say I flirt too much with my "amigos" hehe. Oh well! Good for you and have fun!
Adios! :)
2006-12-12 14:21:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi there. No, you shouldnt feel guilty for that. Do you feel guilty for liking chocolate ice cream instead of vanilla or chicken more than fish? well, its the same, everybody has their preferences and it is ok to have them. The only bad thing is racism, which is hating certain groups of people, and you dont do that, you just feel atracted to latin men, withouth hurting or offending anyone, so I think it is totally ok. Some guys like blond girls, some girls like skinny boys, and you like latin men... maybe I should introduce you some of my venezuelan friends? ;) lol
2006-12-13 05:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by Mila S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm white and I don't really find many white people attractive. I pretty much prefer every other race. Don't feel guilty at all! You can't help who you are attracted to. Race has nothing to do with whether you are dating a good and honest guy.
2016-03-29 05:13:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont feel bad for having a preference because you are the one who has to deal with who you date and black men will be all right just because you're into the latino culture does not mean your a bad person and as for the person saying no one wants to date black men, she obviously missed how the black man is more immitated than anything else in the world
2006-12-12 14:21:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
so, you like Latin guys! good for you. I mean who really cares what kind of hair they have? I like them too and I'm black but I'm not complaining. If you like them for who they are then whats the big deal. you are a 20yr old girl who still lets other people get to her for liking a different race? And hispanic guys of all races? It's not like you like a foreign specie they are humans and it's your choice not your dads or your friends. so find yourself a latin guy that likes you and have fun!!
2006-12-12 14:23:05 · answer #8 · answered by africangirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with liking Latin men. I am white but hey its all how it feels to you. Plus I bet they dance good too.
2006-12-12 14:31:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be to hard on yourself, its ok to like different people.You have a preference... Big deal. Just be open to everyone if you still settle on a Latin Man its not the end of the world!
2006-12-12 14:17:01 · answer #10 · answered by Adelaide V 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋