2006-12-12 14:09:58 · 8 answers · asked by lulu s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you could be. Having a close frined get involved with an ex usually sucks, because you have to deal with the ex in a whole new way, and if it wasn;t your idea to split up its tough.
2006-12-12 14:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by Foss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be over him and still not appreciate your friend going after your left overs. You may not ever want to be with this guy again but I think its just messed up that your friend would even look at your ex like that. Thats an unwritten rule never to go after your friend's ex man.
2006-12-12 22:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by Aja D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it has anything to do with being over them or not. I think its just a matter that you think your friend wouldnt go that way. it kinda feels like a betrayl in some ways. i guess it also depends on how significant your relationship was to begin with.
A friend of mine started to like my ex. i was really upset with her because she wasnts honest with me when i asked her about it. then she went behind my back and tried to pursue him. it really upset me because he and i had a very serious relationship and she was there for all of it.
2006-12-12 22:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by you know who 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all women feel, "once mine - always mine" as far as her friends go. Good friends will not go with friends ex's. It is an unwritten code.
2006-12-12 22:14:00 · answer #4 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say, Probably Not.
If you were over him, you wouldn't care what he did, and you wouldn't have a problem seeing him with someone else.
2006-12-12 22:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you probably are but you'll always have a "LIL" feeling inside for that person and you wouldnt want anyone close to you going out with him.
2006-12-12 22:15:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not totally over him. Because you if you were you wouldn't care at all....trust me.
2006-12-12 22:15:32 · answer #7 · answered by miley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No u aint over him.
2006-12-12 22:14:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋