If you like the guy that your going out with, but your not happy in the relationship. Should you break-up with him?
2006-12-12 14:09:12 · 22 answers · asked by â?¥Hubba Bubbaâ?¥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think of him as a piece of chocolate...is the chocolate worth taking out of the wrapper or should u just leave it wraped?....Is this guy worth the wait and staying with him through the bad and the good? or do u think you two are better off as friends?.. all relationships hav their bad times if u really like the person and u feel he is worth alot to u its worth stickin thru the bad times because the good times are even better, thats how u form good and strong relationships, some realtionships tho are just not meant for that and can't last through one bad moment..its up to you to decide.
2006-12-12 14:11:02 · answer #1 · answered by JP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to focus on is your happiness. It all comes down to wether you are completely unhappy. If it is a minor issue, let him know, talk about it and work it out.
In another light, maybe the best thing to do is break up. Like everyone says, there are plenty of fish in the sea, and you will certainly find someone like him and you will be hapy in the relationship. when it all comes down to the line, it is your choice, do what your heart tells you too. If you break up, you might be hurting for a while, but in the long run it might be for the best. Best of luck to you and i hope everything works out ok.
2006-12-12 14:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,that's your problem, right~first if the stiff is like a "crush" and his make all the bells ring and all the balls roll in your direction, then you gotta put your wants in order at this point, I'm guessing your a foot ball widow or something, i got my choices layed out a few years ago on how ugly my life was going to get if a sat a watched foot ball all week end and want my love life at night it was going to be gone if the TV was on so there was a time i remember foot ball but i really wouldn't exchange it for a love life and she made me walk the walk or else so that's just me but i was a bad relationship kinda guy where if she wants me i want it my way and that will get you a divorce and then, there's still the problem that u could change him, I've seen this work throw money at him first (LOL)then tell him why he's being paid to change and c if he understands that joke otherwise there may be no joke
2006-12-12 14:23:20 · answer #3 · answered by bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ima have to say yeah break up if you like him your probably just attracted to him because if you really liked him you wouldnt be unhappy with the relationship unless the problem is from an outside source say a family member or something that is empeding your happieness . then you must work out if it can be resolved or not . but in the end you must be happy or dont even waste your time besides sadness gives you wrinkles you will age faster .
2006-12-12 14:14:30 · answer #4 · answered by armient 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask yourself, is this the situation I want to be in 10 years from now? You need to identify the reasons that your unhappy in the relationship and evaluate if you just like him as a friend..
After you have really given this some thought, you will see if he's friend or relationship material. Just don't lead him on if you suspect he has strong feeling for you that you don't reciprocate.
2006-12-12 14:13:14 · answer #5 · answered by kimison_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't jump to conclusions, bring up your problems and talk about it. If you can't work it out, break up. You should at least try to salvage the relationship if you really like the person. And make sure they feel the same way by TALKING to them and talking about it. It may uncomfortable at first, but it's better than losing the person you love. It may even make you closer.
2006-12-12 14:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by g b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask in here (and there's nothing wrong with that) then you already have doubts about this relationship!
If either of you are not 100% commited to your relationship - AND - presuming you are young --- Break it off!
You will have many more chances at love in your future!
The OL' Sasquatch Ü
2006-12-12 14:17:09 · answer #7 · answered by Ol' Sasquatch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not.
1. Outline the problem.
2. Discuss the problem.
3. Fix the problem.
If all parties do not comply, or at least compromise, then leave. If he loves you, then he would want you to be happy.
2006-12-12 14:12:44 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you arent happy definately break up. i was in this situation once. my ex boyfriend was nice, and really sweet i hated to hurt his feelings but i had to break up with him. i was unhappy. now i am with the greatsest guy alive. dont put yourself in a situation where you may be selling yourself short, not getting what you deserve. there is a great guy out there for you, you may not find him soon, but he's there :)
2006-12-12 14:13:06 · answer #9 · answered by caseyrae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to,you need to break-up,yes.An unhappy relationship,soon or later is going to have an end.Also this kind of relationship,never is working.A relationship genuine,is based in love,honesty,sincerity,comprehension and enough love,indeed.Good question.If you do not break-up with with him,what you are doing with him is playing with his feelings.And soon or later,he will discover the truth.Good luck.
2006-12-12 14:16:40 · answer #10 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋