When a guy asks you to...?

Question

go help him pick out presents for his sister and his mom, is that a date? or is that a friend thing? I actually thought the guy was kidding. maybe he really needs help? lol

he's a guy from work i haven't really gone out with yet and I like him

Answer 1

= It is a guy just being careful and checking you out (Most likely), but he could really need help. Go and see what happens.

Answer 2

If you both talk a lot at work then maybe he trusts you enough to make the right decision about his sister and mom's gifts (one of the two most important persons in his life). I'm sure you're not the only female he knows so the fact that he chose you may mean that he wants your company. Shopping at xmas time can be hectic, but also sentimental when you're doing it with the right person :-)
Don't make any assumptions or fast moves until he gives a clearer hint because men can send mix signals as well. So babes it can be either way...but i wouldn't call it a date.

p.s. then like JS said he might need a ride lol

Answer 3

thats a friend thing maybe he really needs help. Give the guy the benefit of the doubt that he knows how to ask a female on a date. Shopping for presents for his family is just not the way.

Answer 4

It is more of a friend thing but it has all the right possibilities. Sure he needs help, they all need help but he could have asked his sister about his mom and vice versa. Go with and see what developes. If you like him let it show a bit and see how he reacts, nothing big just send out some feelers and see what ya get. Who knows?

A relationship with someone at work has its pitfalls and can be tricky but on the other hand, I met my husband at work

Answer 5

Nope he don't like you ...... he just need help picking the perfect gift for people he do like..... and maybe he don't know enough about women to know what they like so in other words he's gay.... okay so stop beating around the bush and ask him....and if he is then move on... but if he's not then ask him anyway so you can know what your gonna do...that was a long answer but I want to get my point across that you should not wait around to find out anything ....ask for what you want....

Answer 6

Sure go with him ..help him pick out presents..You do that then that will lead him to ask you out on a date.Hey he picked you out to do this deed just be friendly and help the guy out.YOu never know in this act of kindness where this will lead.

Answer 7

In all likelyhood, he doesnt consider it a date. But on the plus side,since you do like ths guy, you have a great opportunity to shine your light so that he may see you as something more than a friend and co-worker.

Answer 8

He is attracted to to you too. He couldn't figure out another way to get you away from office politics and crowds of peers, so he needed to put you in a more "intimate setting." I don't mean sex, but consider it an interview. If you needed to speak to someone and you couldn't get the nerves right, but didn't want to be put on the spot, what would YOU do?

Answer 9

Not nec. I wouldn't consider that anything but a friend-type of thing unless he hints to you otherwise. Yeah, most guys have absolutely no idea what to buy for the women in their life, whether they be wife, mother, sister, aunt or grandmother.....

for now, just take it at face value

Answer 10

it's a friendly thing. most men are bad at buying presents. especially for women. at the same time it's a sign that this guy wants to be closer to you and get to know you better. if you aren't that close, he may just want to be better friends. he might want to do you, but he might also just need your help. i would suggest helping him, unless you don't trust him or want to be better friends with the man.