My boyfriend decided to stop talking to some girl I've never met because she was hitting on him. I was kinda glad because it upset me but I never really talked to him about it, because I didn't want to be the possessive girlfriend that wouldn't let him be friends with girls. He had told her not to talk to him anymore, and now I kinda feel bad for her, but I don't think I should. Should I?
2006-12-12 13:54:07 · 12 answers · asked by obsessivlyinsecure 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing you can do...Why feel sorry for her???
2006-12-12 14:12:30 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If this other girl was actually hitting on him then yes you have a right to have him stop talking to her without feeling bad... if she was just talkin to him as friends then it would be possive, but since she was trying to make a move on him then you are fine and should not feel bad about it at all~!!
2006-12-12 13:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by Justin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should feel bad for her, but it doesn't matter what I think you can make your own decisions. If your boyfriend doesn't want to talk to her, that's his choice. You have nothing to do with it, although if you do feel bad you can talk to him about having friends that are girls. Tell him you don't care, because you know he loves you.
Happy Holidays,
GirlInLove
2006-12-12 13:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer. i'm grown and that i've got enjoyed him on condition that 1988. of direction back then i did no longer think of he replaced into warm in any respect because of the fact i replaced into purely six or seven. Now, whilst i glance back at it, he replaced right into a superb, attractive guy....and that i do no longer care if others do unlike me pertaining to him as such. i'm grown. they are able to shove it. EDIT: in simple terms observed the section this question is in....wow.
2016-10-05 06:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by cosco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you a glutton for pain. Be happy he is honest with you and refuses to have anything to do with people who hit on him. Why worry about her feelings, she was not worried about yours when she hit on her boyfriend? Thank god you have a decent boyfriend.
2006-12-12 13:58:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, you could feel bad for her. Especially if you don't mind catching them in bed together or something of the like one day. Why would you feel bad for her? She was hitting on your man. I'm very proud of you for not hounding him about it. Good for you.
2006-12-12 13:57:36 · answer #6 · answered by bellbottombleus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His choice.
Ultimately you can't tell him what to do because that will drive him away from you. So if he decides it's better not to put himself in certain situations, then that's his call.
It only becomes your concern, really, when it affects you.
2006-12-12 13:58:49 · answer #7 · answered by Wonderpants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no reason to feel bad or guilty, as it was his decision. Be happy that you have a man who respects boundaries, and is faithful to you.
2006-12-12 14:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she hit on your man then no don't feel sorry for her just be with your boyfriend and live life,luck.
2006-12-12 13:59:55 · answer #9 · answered by matthew w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i you should chill and not dwell on it if he's not tripping thin you should not care you did nu thing wrong
2006-12-12 14:00:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he didnt stop talking to her.
2006-12-12 13:58:16 · answer #11 · answered by mouse3801 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋