2006-12-12 13:48:57 · 22 answers · asked by Count DiMera 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No such thing. Whatever floats your boat. Look at Hef!!!
2006-12-12 13:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by Proto 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No way!!!!! Theres so many more things than looks to judge a person on. Seriously altho this is a cliche it really can be true tht someone may be stunning and the other person may not be as good looking conventionally but have a great personality (or loads of money lol).
Also theres a psych theory known as the matching hypothesis that supports the idea that we flock to ppl in the league as us. This theory argues that we do go for ppl in a similar league as ourselves, but this doesnt necessarily mean that they have to match us in the same attribute i.e. ireally good looking girl isnt necessarily out of league of the average looking nothing special guy if he has a winning personality that everyone warms to i.e. think of the way lots of women are attracted to funny and charming men. My male friends that are most popular with women and can literally pull anyone arent the best lookers they have charm! Similarly tho it could be money so a good looking woman could be attracted to a guy becos of status or power i.e. think of Hugh Hefner ugly but surrounded by all the playmates lol, becos he has cash and some bizarre notoriety status........ Evolutionary psych supports this also, ppl strong in one attribute e.g. great lookers, men with killer personalities, asked for more attributes in a mate and were much pickier about standards (analysis of personal ads). So thus they wanted ppl in the same high league but were trading one attribute for other attributes not necessarily just the one they were offering.
Anyways beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I dont find many conventionally good looking men attractive, the men that i seem to think are drop dead gorgeous all have something about them i cant place that makes me think theyre amazing looking. We all find different looks appealing, me and my gfs hardly ever think the same guy is hot. This probs has alot to do with what i said in the last paragraph as well in that if you attracted to someones personality you can suddenly start finding them drop dead gorgeous or at least more appealing physically than you did before.
If someone perceives someone as too good looking for them this is a self esteem issue on thepart of the person thinking it. As the above ideas support no one is too anything for u if you can balance it out by offering a similar level of worth in an attribute, even just kindness etc!
2006-12-12 21:57:13 · answer #2 · answered by claire007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a judgement made by people outside of the relationship. Looks have little to do with a relationship. It might get you that first, second and third look, but who is just gonna sit around gazing up at someone. Looks are nice but after ya look, who cares it is what sort of person someone is that counts.
2006-12-12 21:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely...we tend to be attracted to people on our own level so to speak (well at least as far as wanting to be with them attracted, not just they are good looking attracted)
I wont date "hot" women, you know the ones that dress all fancy, douse themselves with makeup and may as well not wear any underwear since they are showing off what they got anyway. They tend to think that is all they need is looks, I want a girl who is pretty but has a mind as well...
2006-12-12 21:54:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite honestly, yes. People naturally are drawn to people who are their "equal" in terms of attractiveness. In the cases where this does not ring true, there is some other factor balancing the scales, for example the rich older man with the beauty.
2006-12-12 21:52:17 · answer #5 · answered by F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I was the school looser in high school. I did NO sports, talked to NO ONE. The beautiful girls were unaproachable. I had no money, no car, no team. When I graduated from high school, I married a model. Totally out of my range, but it make life great!!
Brittany Spears ex is a FOOL!!
2006-12-12 21:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
never I think like that.... no way and I am always dating very good looking guys that I don't know why they are not models...
I don't see any diference...And believe or not this guys are very nice guys thats why I ending dating them... And to me is not just about the good looks...
2006-12-12 21:55:09 · answer #7 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Water seeks its own level. When you're out together, you're probably outta your league if the other person gets noticed significantly more
2006-12-12 21:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by Foss 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only if you look in a mirror and see less then you are. remember if you were selected by this too good looking person they must see more in you then you see in yourself. Allow life- please. the worry the wonder will ruin your relationship
2006-12-12 22:54:17 · answer #9 · answered by FLH67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Anyone can be good enough for anyone. People who think they are too good looking,are probably in love with their reflection.
2006-12-12 21:52:50 · answer #10 · answered by Ellie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
beauty is what on the inside. you could be all nice and cute and be a bubble or air headed person. beauty on the outside isn't everything. when you get older, we tend to lose it.
2006-12-12 21:54:46 · answer #11 · answered by intelligent80000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋