Women, when does NO! really mean yes??

Question

I mean obviously no and then pepper spray is a definite no, but no i have a headache, does that mean yes if you rub my back, and spend some time at the hmmm Y?
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Answer 1

just look in her eyes, try to read her body language. Some times girls do that because they WANT to be taken advantage of. but there needs to be trust first before you can try something like that.

Answer 2

I cam accross an intersting article on how women communicate. Although some of the information is useful on this website here, I find it hard to believe that all of these generalizations could possibly be true for EVERY WOMAN. On one page, the author claims that woman see the attitude behind the behavior, and is more concerned with this than with the action itself. Although I don't doubts this is true with most women most of the time, it is also conceivable that the intention behind the action could be misinterpreted. Lets say that you opened a door one time for a woman in order to get appreciation, but later on you just did it out of habit. Or lets say that you did it to show you cared. The first one overweighs the other two, and thus your behavior may be criticized. I know because this has happened to me. Our intentions behind our behaviors with anyone male or female are always subjective, because we are constantly evolving in the way we percieve the circumstance, or even the world itself. This creates complex processess in relationships, because one day we may be reading a book that deals with becoming successful, and just because we have read this book and quit our job, in the past, this is not necessarily a sign that we are planning to quit our job in the present. But many women takes the "past equals the present" approach, which if you really look it at, is not entirely true. If it was the case, than people could never learn from anything. "The past neither equals the present, nor the future." And any subtle sign, could be misinterpreted by anyone. A "no" may mean "yes"; in one context, or under strict rules, but peoples rules of communication and relating are ever evolving. You may say "you're sorry." and hear your lover say "prove it." But if she decides later to change her expecations, the apology itself may be enough. This is the great irony of communication, peoples rules for effective communication are never consistent. They are relative upon timing, circumstance, mood, training, intent, and decisions. So to ask if a woman means "yes" when she says "no." Just think back at a time, when you said "no," but meant "yes" just to test the other person. I am sure if you are past twenty, you've had at least one experience such as this. The anser is in the obvious. "Sometimes." And "It depends on a number of variables, such as who the woman is, what her values and belief systems are, and what drives her to make the choices she makes."

Answer 3

The safest bet is to take all 'no' answers as 'no, and if you push it you'll get peppersprayed.' If a woman wants a massage, she'll ask for one. By the way, the headache excuse is another way of saying, 'no, I don't want to have sex with you.' Everyone knows that an orgasm cures headaches....

Answer 4

You have to know her to be able to tell. If she says no in a sweet/playful/sexual voice, then she probably is playing with you and really doesn't want you to stop. She just wants to play hard to get and make you earn it. The headache thing is a real "no".

Answer 5

Be on the safe side, if she says no accept it. Why would you want to be with someone who plays games with you. If you think maybe she means yes you can be slapped with a rape charge.

Answer 6

I'm going to assume that all other women are like me, and that NO always means NO!!! that's something I don't play around with. and neither should you. when a woman says NO, take her at her word.

Answer 7

No most of the time means no. And if you know the person you would be able to tell if they really meant no (which she probably did!)

Answer 8

YOU CAN TELL WHEN A WOMAN SAYS NO THAT THEY REALLY MEAN YES. WHENEVER YOU ASK A WOMAN SOME THING AND THEY SAY NO YOU CAN TELL THEY MEAN YES IN THESE WAYS. 1. THEY SMILE, BUT TRY TO HIDE IT. 2. THEY LOOK IN YOUR EYES WITH HAPPINESS OR EXCITEMENT. 3. THEY TRY TO SAY SOMETHING, BUT CAN'T CAUSE ITS HARD TO SAY ANYTHING.

Answer 9

no never means yes

Answer 10

No means no.. When are you men going to learn this?!!?!