ok i no this may sound stupid but would you cheat on a girl if you were in a long term relationship if the girl had brown hair blue eyes and skinny i dont no
2006-12-12 13:39:14 · 9 answers · asked by hate_know_love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok iam a girl and i was just wondering if youd ever cheat in a long term relationship
cuz its happened to me and im piissed off
2006-12-12 14:04:50 · update #1
Hello...it sounds to me like you need someone to talk to about something that is personal...I am glad for you that you have the courage to reach out to the global community though...in pondering your question, I had to put myself in your shoes and ask myself "what would I do?"...I believe that being true to oneself should be at the forefront of everyones mind...next you must follow what your heart tells you...that being said I would like to analyze the situation, again, this is me in your shoes...I have been in a long term relationship with this girl and she is a great person because if she was not, we would not have a long term relationship...she also has a beautiful personality and is beautiful to look at, actually she is HOT!...I love how her brown hair hangs down on her face and how it sometimes dances in a gentle breeze...I know that I care about her very much because I now am having thoughts that make me uncomfortable; I am thinking of cheating on her...man I am really attracted to this girl I met at the mall and without thinking of my present girlfriend, we exchanged numbers and said we would call one another...wow! it makes me feel great that this "new' girl has the hots for me...but I don';t even know her very well...don't know if she likes chocolate ice cream or strawberry...I don't know her like I know my present girlfriend...in fact, if we "get it on under the sheets", I don't know that I will want to continue seeing her...if my girlfreind found out, how would she react?...would she slap me and break up with me?...would she stalk me and this "new" girl and try to do something to me/us?...would she not care at all and start cheating on me too?...whoa!!! would she do that to me?...how would I feel if she started meeting up with a beefy sexy guy behind my back?...maybe she will lose interest in me, then I will be able to get it on with the "new" girl, but the new girl already has a boyfriend and all she wanted from me was to get her rocks off...and not that we both have "gotten our rocks off"...what have we gained...what have I gained?...what have I lost?...where is this great nice person that I so cherished for such a long time...will she ever talk to me again?...should she?...what did I accomplish by acting on my impluse to be with another girl?...I think I hurt not only myself, but I also hurt someone who also cared about me and thought alot of me, and what does she think of me now...maybe she doesn' think of me because she is with that "new"stud she met and I am a nobody...gee, now I know how it feels when the shoe is on the other foot...What should you do buddy?...do what is in your heart...do the right thing and know that "the grass is not always greener on the other side of the hill"...remember all life's decisions come from the heart...the outcome will remain in your soul forever...how do you want to live with your decision?...hope this helps...if you need to chat; my address is: 2chivoazul@sbcglobal.net....Peace
2006-12-12 14:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Not if you love the girl you are with.
But......Since this is even crossing your mind I guess you are not in love with your present girlfriend.
If you want to be with someone else have a heart and break it off with your girlfriend.
:-)~
2006-12-12 13:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't as it would be dishonest, and quite frankly, I only need to be with one woman.
2006-12-12 14:40:19 · answer #3 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheat for what don't you get cheated asking a question like that you get what you give what would you contimplate this that poor girl
2006-12-12 13:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by flipper 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it completely depends upon the girl i was with, if i cared about her, i wouldnt.
2006-12-12 13:44:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is stupid! Don't cheat at all!!!!!
2006-12-12 13:43:11 · answer #6 · answered by John D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
creep
2006-12-12 13:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by eh77530 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ummm......don't sniff glue
2006-12-12 13:41:28 · answer #8 · answered by glduke2003 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
um... what?!?!?!?
2006-12-12 13:42:11 · answer #9 · answered by forlotsadaisies 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋