This has been going on for almost a month, and I think I falling for her. There are times when she sends naughty,steamy,horny,messages from time to time. At one point, she wants to arrange to meet in person. This is my 1st time to ever encounter an experience such as this, and I'm about on the edge to jump on it. I know its a bad thing, but can I just do this just for the sake of knowing "how it felt like" or just to "adventure"..... Im 41 yrs of age. What do you thing I should do? I"de be frank with you, there were times that I've cheated her in our 11 yrs. of marriage. Temptation sometimes whispers at the back of my head, whenever I pass by good looking women or at any possible opportunity.
2006-12-12 13:32:06 · 9 answers · asked by vamperious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What is the vow you exchange with your wife the day you get married?
2006-12-12 13:43:37 · answer #1 · answered by electricgold2002 5 · 15⤊ 0⤋
you really dont know this person..you may think you do..but it is easy to say what the other person wants to hear..first of all your wife doesnt deserve this..what does she possibly have that your wife cant give you? a fling? i think its wrong that you even went looking for someone else..if you treated your wife the way you are treating this women,your wife might not seem so boring to you..why should your wife have to pay for your stupidity! why cant you be happy with what you have!truth be known shes probably not happy with you either..but stills take care of you and your house and family!! and has enough respect for you not to cheat...online or off!! look at what you really have!
2006-12-12 14:09:00 · answer #2 · answered by torybeth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all take a second and think about what your doing! theres nothing wrong with enjoying a little foreplay but engaging is totally imorral! you are threatening your marriage on an idea of what could happen with out any proof, i would have to ask if you have fallen and bumbed your head lately? this is the best time to quit! so dislove your relationship with the text friend because after alll she could be getting paid to do this, if you know what i mean . and get back to your wife and spice things up with her if you need it!
2006-12-12 13:36:56 · answer #3 · answered by Lillian S. Phx Arizona 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really want you marriage ruin, including your kids' life.. then go for it.
If you do not heed to what your conscience is telling you then go for it..
-- just remember you are accountable and responsible to all things that you do.
2006-12-12 13:38:42 · answer #4 · answered by gigi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats ****** up! Y Do u ask for advice if you say You've cheated on her before. What a Dumbass!
2006-12-12 13:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by MeLii♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are cheating,and when your wife finds out she will get a good lawyer and take everything,
2006-12-12 13:34:52 · answer #6 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont be an asshole
how would you feel if your wife did this to you?
2006-12-12 13:35:59 · answer #7 · answered by sofia 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this same situation totally destroyed my six yr relationship why isnt one person ever good enough for you guys???????????????/
2006-12-12 13:38:45 · answer #8 · answered by drinda t 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your a prick....your wife deserves better
2006-12-12 13:34:22 · answer #9 · answered by Onie 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋