I normally go to Missouri to spend time with my Dad and relatives there. I just found out that my dad got a siezure from drinking too much alcohol (he recently stopped drinking completely). Now he's going to spend the next two months in a rehab place. He's even staying there for Christmas. So, all my relatives' Christmas is basically ruined considering one of their family members is sick. And I won't even be able to go there for Christmas because me Dad can't take me. So there's 'sending' the nice things they got me. Fun holidays right? I'm sorry I just really need to vent so I decided to write this. I was crying all day when I found out and decided I'd just put it up here. Some kind words would be great. Thanks :/
2006-12-12 13:30:55 · 9 answers · asked by Victoria 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First, I'm sorry you are so sad at the change in your plans. Second, please be thankful that your dad is alive and able to attend rehab. I know you probably don't want to hear it, but there are a lot of people who will be dealing with grief and heartache because someone they love has died. Maybe you can take your mind off of this by spending some of your time helping others. There are a lot of senior citizens living in homes that are forgotten. They are very sad and lonely this time of year. Imagine how much joy you could bring to just one person if you stopped by and had a chat? You could also volunteer to wrap some presents for a few kids whose parents are overseas fighting in the war. There are a lot of things you can do to make yourself feel better and someone else as well. Keep your chin up sweetie, this will get better. I wish your dad a speedy recovery. Merry Christmas.
2006-12-12 13:39:10 · answer #1 · answered by creole woman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that your Christmas turned out this way. Is their a friend that may be alone for Christmas around that you could spend the holiday with? There are many who would love to have company for the holiday. I hope your Dad gets better! Merry Christmas to you.I do know how you feel. My grandfather died on Christmas Eve many years ago, that was a horrible holiday!
2006-12-12 21:56:22 · answer #2 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl,
Sorry everything sucks right now, it will get better. Since your now free for the holidays you could use the time to your advantage, maybe to help take your mind off of the suck??? How about organizing a dinner w/ friends? You could do pot luck or make plans to meet at some swank restaurant. You could check into volunteering at a soup kitchen? Just try to find a way to make the holidays work for you. Good luck!
2006-12-12 21:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by x_cindergirl_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are millions of people in the world who don't have ANY family or can't afford Christmas. You are going to get presents and still have a family. You're dad is getting treatment to be a better person and overcome something he has probably been struggling with for a long time and all you can think of is yourself. Selfishness is the worst. Be glad you have blessings to count and family to love....In good times and bad.
2006-12-12 21:40:21 · answer #4 · answered by 1truthseeker 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh I'm so sorry, that is terrible! I will say a prayer for you and your family. Have you talked to your family about how upset you are? Maybe they could comfort you and help you to feel better. I'm so sorry about this. And I hope you find some kind of a blessing to help you get through it.
2006-12-12 21:38:00 · answer #5 · answered by Julia B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep your head up and enjoy Christmas anyway. Just think, there are people, families, that don't have a roof over their heads and no food. So be thankful for what you do have. Happy Holidays
2006-12-12 21:37:30 · answer #6 · answered by vcheney84 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry that this happened right before Christmas. Hopefully your dad will be much better next year.
2006-12-12 21:35:18 · answer #7 · answered by Daisy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just hope and pray for your father. nothing lasts forever,not even your troubles. things will work them selves out in give n time. write him a good letter and let him know how much you love him. after the hollidays, he mite be feeling better, and you can go see dad. just dont let your stress, stress him out at this time. ok good luck and take care.
2006-12-12 21:39:23 · answer #8 · answered by waljac6108 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you the least bit concerned about your dad's recovery? It's time to grow up and be thankful he is alive.
2006-12-12 22:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋