i feel horrible. i didnt mean that. how to fix that now? i must have broke his heart. i just got so angry just for jacket
2006-12-12 13:29:31 · 16 answers · asked by \ 5 in Health ➔ Mental Health
sounds like things are stressing you out. Now go apologize and make good, am sure he will understand.
2006-12-12 13:45:43 · answer #1 · answered by what? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow...you can't really "fix it", exactly. Once you've said those words, even if you didn't mention "the d-word", you can't un-say it. That possibility is out there, hanging in the air, waiting on someone to act on it, make it real.
You need to apologize, definitely, and don't feel the need to justify what you did, because that will NOT help. For example, do NOT say, "I'm sorry I said I wanted our marriage to be over, but you moved my jacket." See how dumb that sounds? There is no justification for making that threat unless you mean it. So, did you mean it?
If not, you need to make a heartfelt apology and promise never to make a stupid threat like that again. And you'd better hope that he forgives you.
And what the heck was the problem with the jacket? I have a tendancy to get mad about some really petty stuff, but I'm sure I would not have over-reacted that badly.
2006-12-12 13:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by OK yeah well whatever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you got mad over a jacket, then be very thankful. Because that is the biggest problem you have in your life. You are very lucky to be blessed without all those terrible problems that most of us have to deal with each day.
As for your husband, you even RECOGNIZE that he is sensitive. Again, how many men would thank God every day for a wife that recognizes that they have feelings too?. I cannot count that high.
Apologize and hang on tight. The two of you have got something unique and wonderful the rest of us can only dream about.
2006-12-12 13:33:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you hubby I would have put you in a straight jacket and direct to the hospital for deranged wives !!
2006-12-12 13:39:20 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Debout 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
put on a negligee turn the light down low ,have a groovy dinner in the oven and walk into the room with a bottle of wine ,than say in a husky voice ,that this bad girl needs to be punished
that should fix everything
trust me.
2006-12-12 13:38:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
you have a anger management problem. i think you really need to address is, and as you have a conscience (don't laugh because a lot of people i have come across don't) it will be a challenge but its not impossible. what you said is very nasty. you need to defiantly apologise without delay. sorry to be so honest and i wish you the best of luck.
2006-12-12 14:09:50 · answer #6 · answered by P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happens to all of us. I told someone at school I hated them just becuase they were doing some playful bugging. Just apologize, and if your husband really loves you, he`ll just let it slide.
2006-12-12 13:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by lucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dry your eyes girl.i will send you a new jacket. maybe your husband should get a new wife.
2006-12-12 13:43:45 · answer #8 · answered by JETT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
subconciously you must want out of your relationship. I feel sorry for your husband....go to counseling
2006-12-12 16:39:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you blew up and disrespected him in a major way. I hope he called you on it and laid down a line that nobody who wants to stay in a relationship should cross. Otherwise his name is Matt to me. . . (Door Mat)
2006-12-12 13:34:47 · answer #10 · answered by arcaemous 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋