yup,i waz in a relationship with a gal for 2 yrs.now she saz dat"she never loved me,she tried 2 lov me".so,she doznt want 2 continue it further bcoz she wants som1 who has the qualities that she xpects.but she insists 2 continue frndship.wud it b right 2 continue frndship or just carry on with life?plz answer as i"m quite perplexed.
2006-12-12 13:26:54 · 13 answers · asked by bodhisatta m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi there,
Just move on... let her make other friends... she just wants to be friends with you cause she feels guilty and wants to in some way have satisfaction by being friends with you. Tell her that you would prefer to be alone than with her and remain sad for the rest of your life. See if you remain friends with her it will be difficult for you when she finds her special someone. Thats the reason just forget her and let her go. You don't have to be her friends just to make her feel good about herself. Let her go.
Move on friend, life is beautiful....ups and downs keep coming in life but it should not stop... time will heal and you allow yourself to heal if you remain friends with her it will be very difficult for you to move on and see better things in life. There is someone, some where waiting for you and when the time will be right she will walk into your life... till than wait and be happy in life.
Good Luck & God Bleww
2006-12-12 16:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I like girls who are clean and that looks beautiful or in other words hot but decent in the same time and they should be nice but not too nice or other people could take avantage of you. the hair does not realy matter if it looks good on her. also I usualy give a box of choclates and a flowers for valentines day. and looks does matter a little as long as you are not fat or look like goofy you would do okay, and what would make me break up with a girl is if she cheats on me, or lies a lot, or complain a lot, or is disrespectfull but all of this is my taste it depends on how the guys point of view I hope this helps and be wise in choosing a guy because I hate men who hits or disrespects girls it makes me sick in my stomack
2016-05-23 16:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u hv to move ahead with ur life. she just wanted a time pass all these 2 yrs and nevr sincerely loved u. she has found smone matching with her wavelength and hence wants to throw u now. u too, accept it and lead a life, luk 4 smone who doesnt misuse ur kindness and gratitudeness. bcoz u deserve better. ALL the best!!!
2006-12-12 19:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by shibs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn the page and live your life. the more you think of her or wait for a her return the more miserable you will feel. just forget her and meet your friends. go for jogging , fishing , mountain climbing anything to stop thinking of her or you'll turn mad. life does not stop here. someone else is waiting for you elsewhere. get yourself fresh and ready to live a happy life. its hard in the beginning but turn the page.
2006-12-12 13:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by vasco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, stop all contact. its the only way to get over her,or else, you will still love her. she's lying by the way. no one stays with someone they never loved for that long. are you that niave? she just found someone else, and wants to keep you near just incase things dont work out between her and the other guy. i've seen this scenario so many times amongst my co-workers, friends, and to myself.
2006-12-12 13:32:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on what u want and how u feel. it was pretty rude of her too string u along for 2 years and pretend she loved you. i reckon u should not have contact with her for a while to get over it and then c how u feel
2006-12-12 13:29:43 · answer #6 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are two answers to ur question
1.most probably she was cheati ng u thru out ur two years.......it could happen bcoz girlz are like that..they can cheat anyone like anything and for you it is better to leave her and find some one who really cares you.........i know it is really hard to move on and find a new one instead.....But its your fate....like many losers.
2.you can be happy about it.....atleast she has told you before the marriage between you has taken place.so dont try to keep any friendship with her.........that ultimately affects negatively to you only.......since girls are permanent cheaters
2006-12-12 15:04:13 · answer #7 · answered by sheesnhan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say carry on with life. It is hard to be friends with someone you care about more than just friends. From what I have witnessed, it just does not work. And you probably will be spending more time on her and what she is doing and whom she is doing it with than living you life.
2006-12-12 13:33:17 · answer #8 · answered by kyle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply forget about her.She just wanted to use you.Leave her and be happy, someone better is already waiting for you.
2006-12-12 14:58:01 · answer #9 · answered by ambreen2you 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me as if she either used you as a 'filler' and waited for someone else to move on to. OR she did love you, but she is just trying to make herself believe that she didnt...makes it easier to move on. Hope that helps!
2006-12-12 13:29:13 · answer #10 · answered by ilovechocolate75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋