Me and my boyfriend have sex and its great... it feels great in all but he always finishes before me and im always leaft horny as hell! what do i do!! And i dont want to ask him to do anything to me.. it just dont seem right. And also eating me out doesnt turn me on.
2006-12-12 13:18:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If oral stimulation doesn't turn you on, hunny, you are in trouble. If it's a self-conscious issue, try your hardest to get over it. There s nothing like knowing that the man you love loves you enough to get the job done by going down. Other than that, you could either take care of the job yourself or have him finish the job with a toy.
2006-12-12 13:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by servant2heaven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny i have that same prob i dont like to be eat out it dont do nothing at all for me what i do in that situation get him on top to where he has your legs on his chest and play with your clit that always works for me and it also turns your man on well my man when i do that.... or if that dont work get him on the bottom and ride him hard.... and if that dont work get toys or if u ever suck him or anything have him finger you that may work or like someone else said when he is done wait a few minutes and go again play with it or what ever while you wait
2006-12-12 23:36:54 · answer #2 · answered by Wanda C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak up, and let him know what is going on. And I quote" IF YOU CHECK OUT BEFORE YOUR FINSHED WITH YOUR WORK YOUR SCHEDULE OF WORK WILL CHANGE". Let him come up short a few times and he might just see the light or get lost in the dark.
2006-12-12 13:24:23 · answer #3 · answered by J J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take matters into your own hands. Make sure he sees and watches and maybe he will help. Good luck and don't settle, you are entitled and it can be great fun.
2006-12-12 13:21:49 · answer #4 · answered by Unknown Oscillator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this issue with a former girlfriend. She used to get on top, which allowed her to stimulate herself, work at her pace AND control when we were done. That worked for us.
2006-12-12 13:23:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
finish yourself, or get him too. If you approach it the right way it will be turn on for him. Guys like watching girls master bate
2006-12-12 13:22:01 · answer #6 · answered by Todd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is quite common. The best is now and then do it directly, definitely that will make you finish first.
2006-12-12 13:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by Onceuponatime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a few minutes to recover, and ask him to get back in the saddle. You should get a cookie too...it's only fair.
2006-12-12 13:21:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow....you are really missing out....if you don't want him to do what will really get you off, then you will either have to ask him to help or do it yourself...but sex is supposed to be totally wonderful and satifying for both partners not just one.....so figure it out or you will always be unfulfilled.......
2006-12-12 13:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are out of luck then if he doesn't go down on you. You would like it if you had it done right just once.
2006-12-12 13:20:44 · answer #10 · answered by topdps 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋