everytime i get around my bf i have nothing to say and i get really shy and my stomach hurts and i don't know what to say is there any1 who can help me with that
2006-12-12 13:17:13 · 19 answers · asked by zanreah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why don't you start out with maybe talking about 1.-current events 2.- holiday plans 3.- school 4. your pet or his if you own one 5.- you need " tums " as your tummy hurts 6.- talk about movies 7.- go get something to eat. He is your B.F. not your class professor- he likes you for all your qualities good & bad- loosen up- go with the flow- have fun & smile- do all the things that attracted him to you in the very beginning, good luck.
2006-12-12 13:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by jyone scotani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, how long have you guys been going out? I think the first moments of being together when you get clammy and your heart flutters is the best part. If you are together for a while, you will recall those days and it will make you smile. Unfortunatly, that feeling kind of goes away, so what I would do is just sit back and feel it. Because there probably wontn be many other times when you get the butterflies like that- not that you're ugly or whatever, but because life is short, and unfortunatly, so is fluterbies.
2006-12-12 13:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by Aria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look him in the eyes and tell him what you see. If you dont see anything I would say you are not made for each other and move on. I hope I am wrong though and you will see true love with each other.
2006-12-12 13:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by anthony p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well My GF is the same way i can tell but some times thats what i like the most about her but , it helps if you talk atleast about the weather or last period or something
2006-12-12 13:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow -- you've got it bad!!
First, you need to relax and realize that he is human, just like you. Second, it probably wouldn't hurt for you to tell him that you are incredibly nervous and shy around him because you like him. He ought to respect you for the honesty.
Good luck!
2006-12-12 13:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for sure you're announcing no longer something, your texting. attempt certainly announcing some thing. it somewhat is noted as communique and that's a dying breed that still does it even with the undeniable fact that it does certainly artwork.
2016-12-30 08:10:25 · answer #6 · answered by bruss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya i can help you when u talk to him you need to think of what he likes and have lunch with him and tell him that when u are around him that he looks good but don't just say "You look good"
tell him hes cute and a smill will drive him CRAZY believe me as a professional guy
2006-12-12 13:23:51 · answer #7 · answered by toetoe w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be you're allergic? The more you stress yourself out, the worse your stomach will get. Settle down and be yourself, not who you think he wants you to be.
2006-12-12 13:20:23 · answer #8 · answered by ron k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's completely normal aiights? just stay calm and tell yourself that he's just another human being. you and your boyfriend should always feel comfortable with eachother, thats what makes a relationship. so just speak your mind =P
2006-12-12 13:20:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a deep breath and be yourself don't put on any phonyness and it all will come together you need no rehearsal to be real works out better that way
2006-12-12 13:21:09 · answer #10 · answered by flipper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋