he asked me to go to a dance with him so, i did. It was a little akward because i always saw this person as my "silly friend". ya know? well how should i proceed?
i could go out with him again... maybe i would get over the weirdness and really start to like him... or
i could just end it now by saying i dont feel that way about you.
the only problem being im not sure how i feel. I dont want to ruin our friendship...
2006-12-12 12:57:17 · 16 answers · asked by Heather 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is already your "silly" friend. Just don't "try" to do anything with the situation.
It doesn't sound like you know how you feel about it for sure. Be friends first, and just let time take care of the relationship.
2006-12-12 13:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well no matter what, if you are honest with him, he'll always be your friend.
If he asks you out again, like on a date ... go out with him if you want to, but maybe you could tell him you like him as a friend but aren't sure if you want a relationship. Admit you're not sure, so you want to go slow and see what develops.
You will know how you feel after dating him a few times ... either you will just want to keep him as a friend, or you will want to take the relationship to the next step.
You've only known him one way .. give him a chance to show you other sides of him ... he might surprise you.
2006-12-12 21:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by GRNeyzNYC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if this guy is like me in any way, then if you do go out with him and it ends up not working out, then he probably won't want to never talk to you again or even have things be awkward again. I think you should go for it because it could turn out to be a great releationship and if it doesn't, then you can still be friends like you were before. You may say that it won't be that way cause you could never be friends the same way, but one of my best friends is a girl I used to date. If you don't let it be awkward and don't think aabout it and just enjoy yourself, then it woun't be awkward.
2006-12-12 21:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by dumbblonde131313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go out with him again and relax. The best relationships always start out as friendships.
2006-12-12 20:59:22 · answer #4 · answered by party_pam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance. Maybe you have something special that you don't know ever existed. Great relationships start as being good friends. I wish some girls gave me a chance back when I was younger. :)
2006-12-12 21:00:09 · answer #5 · answered by Maximum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should give it a chance just to see what will happen. but you should straight out say before anything happens that you dont want anything in the future to like.mess up your guys' friendship =]
hope that helps a little bit!
2006-12-12 21:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
..u can go out w/ em one mor time.. n see how u feel there... if u still felt as if he is ur silly friends then tell there that this doesn't work right.. he'll understand... wen friends started goin out on dates.. they feel weird at first.. but then it'll work out fine later on.. so like i said.. go out w/ em one more time.. n then decide how u feel abt this person...
2006-12-12 21:03:00 · answer #7 · answered by ifaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say give it one more chance, and really try to pay attention to how u feel with him....if it not there, dont try to make it come....wasting time waiting for feelings to come will just get him attached and put u in a BAD situation....most likely ending ur friendship...trust me, i tend to get in these situations WAYYY TO OFTEN
2006-12-12 21:14:35 · answer #8 · answered by LeeLo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, give another hang out a try. if it doesn't work then find some one you are interested in and move on and keep him as a friend.
2006-12-12 21:00:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and do something casual with him. maybe go with him to the movies or something. give yourself time to decide whether or not hes the one you want. don't end or start things to soon. trust me I've been there
2006-12-12 20:59:52 · answer #10 · answered by nathan R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋