Ok so my boyfriend and I were together for almost 2 years and he broke up with me 7 months ago and I still miss him. He dumped me for a girl who lives 3 hours away and she is 15 and he is 17. Ive had a few boyfriends but none that I really liked. I would like to talk to my ex but when we broke up he said he wanted nothing to do with me and that hurt me really bad. So Im afraid to talk to him because of what he said back then. We havent talked since we broke up. Do you think there is a chance, like that quote that is talking about letting something go that you love and if it comes back then its meant to be or should I just completely give up. We oscassionally look at each other at school..but I dont know what to do. I feel like I will never get over this. Will I??
2006-12-12 12:28:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you really care about him as much as you say you do ( and i think you do bc you cant stop thinking about him) i think that you should call him and take the chance. the worst that can happen is that he will tell you what you already know (he dosnt want to have anything to do with you) and you will be where you are now, or he can tell you somehing great, but you need to take the chance and talk to him. tell him how much you care about him, and that you really miss him.
2006-12-12 12:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by Chelsea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first if he said it and he was calm when he said it he might really mean it. and that quote only counts in your situation if he comes back but truthfully if you havent talked for 7 long months i think you should start to move on and do something to occupy your mind so you wont think about him If you think that his friendship is important to you then start with something small so the both of you can get used to talking again
2006-12-12 12:34:58 · answer #2 · answered by Mo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is every chance that if you were to offer yourself at this time he would take you use you as a lust toy and toss you away.
find yourself a long line with men in it and work your way right through that line enjoying each ones special taste and skill .
when you simply can not handle more pure passion then that find a line of men who are holding up signs saying wife wanted and try some of them out but know this that line is for grown ups only.
2006-12-12 12:34:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you definitely will get over this. Move on, as he apparently has no intention of getting back with you. It's his misfortune, that he chooses not to. Boyfriends (and girlfriends) are bumps in the road, until you find one that you can't pass over. Hang in and you'll do o.k..
2006-12-12 12:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me over time you will get over it. But when you see him in school walk over to him and ask him how he feels about you. If you don't like what he tells you, walk no and move on. Find another guy who will treat you right and don't worry everyone gets over it. Need to chat some more about it, IM me or e-mail me
2006-12-12 12:32:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The poem is not working honey, he has not come back, so he is not your ture love or whatever the poem reads. Move on with your life and let it go.
2006-12-12 12:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eventually.. I'm sorry, but it will take a long time to get over this, two years is an awefully long time to get over someone.. give it to God, listen to the song "Let It Go" by Manafest, he's a rapper, it'll help, it helped me get over my ex... hope this helped somewhat...
2006-12-12 12:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
date his best freind he'll want you again and then you can hurt him how he hurt you
2006-12-12 12:30:05 · answer #8 · answered by plumbinmonkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a loser forget him because he doesn't appreciate you.
2006-12-12 12:30:23 · answer #9 · answered by true-mysteryfrom chinese wish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EX GIRLFRIENDS SWALLOW!!!!!
2006-12-12 12:30:27 · answer #10 · answered by petasucks101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋