Basically she called me up saying she was going out with one of my friends, but he was kinda being mean to her and she likes me a little bit too. Now i've been liking this girl since October, but as soon as the crew looked at her at started laughing case she doesn't look that good, i started to lose interest in her. Me and the other 5 guys that i kick it with started clowning her, and my friend that goes with her for liking her. Then at lunch she wasn't with her bf, but she was mad at me case she heard i was talking about how she doesn't look all that good. ......Now i don't like her and she might of already broke up with her bf. Now what to do.
NOTE: SHE'S A CUTTER, but i'm the only one who knows and i should tell my homeboys ,but it might make her cut her self more.
2006-12-12 12:25:58 · 13 answers · asked by keithr2003 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should always take into consideration the possibility that your friends might be retarded. the correct thing would be to try to apologize to the girl. whether you like her or not.
2006-12-14 17:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay you started out sorta liking her, but then because your boys didn't like her because she wasn't all that cute, you backed down. Way to be a man! Obviously you looked through the fact she wasn't all that cute and saw something more in her. But you let that slip away.. Once again way to be a man.
Now she is a cutter. I would suggest maybe its time for you to make up for the harm you already caused this girl, be a real friend to her and try to help her get the help she needs. Can you be man enough to do that even if your friends don't approve???
2006-12-12 12:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by Issym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough one, she's a cutter so you have to watch how you handle her. try being honest with her by letting her know how you feel, although you should leave out the "you're not that cute part", as for your friends don't tell she cuts herself, they might make fun of her and the cutting could get more serious. tell the school conselor or a teacher
2006-12-12 12:31:01 · answer #3 · answered by firefly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what you need to say is WTF is wrong with you. what has basically happened is that you have crushed a girl based on looks. you already said that you was feeling this girl until your guys saw her. so what you are saying is that you ar egiving your boys the power to control your life.that right there is stupid. but let us get back to the real issue, the girl. you have lead her on and now you need to fix this. let us see if you have as much control over your friend's mind and emotions as they have over yours. talk to your friend and pump up the girl's image in his eyes and if need to talk to her and have her realize that you are not the one for her. that can be easy by the way you treated her. If she is a cutter, you need to really talk to someone about that because she can really hurt herself. get some professional help for her. you are not able to handle that on your own.
2006-12-12 12:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by silentasalamb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes a cutter why did you make fun of her in the first place!shes gonna cut herself anyway,she is a cutter.
2006-12-12 12:34:32 · answer #5 · answered by tino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you say CUTTER? OMG this is a problem.... stop making fun of her? set an example for the others?
2006-12-12 12:28:37 · answer #6 · answered by Michael S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you read what that b itch sue said, hoe I will kick your head in
By the way tell your homeboy
2006-12-12 12:35:31 · answer #7 · answered by This is just my opinion! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bro thats not your problem im sure its not the first time someone has talked about her tell her to get over that and if she dont how is it your fault. just keep it moving bro dont worry some weak broad
2006-12-12 12:33:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should'nt have been dissing her anyway just because of your boys, especially if you liked her at all. If you are still wanting to get with her I believe alot of a55 kissing is the only way.
2006-12-12 12:29:42 · answer #9 · answered by seaangell304 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think you should play it cool with her. be casual. give her a help hotline for her problem and if u really dont like her then y bring it up? obviously you care more about wut your friends think. but if you TRULY like her go for it honey. but be careful..cuz i used to be a cutter. its not eaasy
2006-12-12 12:29:05 · answer #10 · answered by LiveItUp09 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋