Why is it my guy friends who think i'm hot, want to have sex with me?? My friend heard them and their friends talking about who'd they'd like to sleep with and my friends listed me.
Why do guys always want to be more than friends or friends with benefits instead of just friends with a girl??
Why am I on the top of their list?? I am just a petite gymnast, not some supermodel.
Is this normal for guys to do??
I have a b/f but every guy I know is thinking about being more than friends with me. WHY??
2006-12-12 12:22:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Petite girls are hot and hard to come by they are all taken!
2006-12-12 12:29:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young men especially think about sex constantly because it is a new and exciting phase of their development. There is also curiosity in a man about what it would be like with a particular person and often in their imagination it is much more exciting than it would be in real life. Sometimes peer pressure in a group setting can make boys out do each other in wild claims and to prove their manhood they become more course than they really are. I'm sure if you were alone with any of those guys they would be far more civilised. If you are attractive most men would indeed enjoy having sex with you and they will likely fantasise it, It's not the end of the world. When they meet someone of their own they won't care so much for you and you might even miss the attention so just enjoy it without leading anyone on. When you are older you wish it could be like this again...
2006-12-12 12:34:05 · answer #2 · answered by Pilgrim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure of your age, but I'm guessing between 17-24. OK a guys sexual peak is at that exact age! Yours would be in the age range from 27-34. So when you get that age you will have a hormone overdrive and understand their situation. Not to say that all woman and men are the same in the sex aspect, just in a broad range. So don't take it harsh or that that's all they think about. They can still be your friends but they may just think about you in ways that you don't them. No harm no foul. You must be pretty and attractive to gain this response and you should be content. So no, it's hormones not a personal thing. =]]
2006-12-12 12:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by LordTool 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel! I have a several guy friends and some of them are cool, but some are just pigs. I over heard some of them saying a bunch of crap about how they like to sleep with me. I wonder if they say that sort of thing about most girls? I'm six foot tall, so I figured most of them would want a tiny girl. I'm thin and everything, but I don't see why they can't just treat me like a friend.
It grosses me out to know that they feel that way. If they think I'm pretty, then they didn't have to go into graphic detail about the things they'd do to me.
2006-12-12 12:32:18 · answer #4 · answered by Manx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys think about sex all the time because the think with their penis.
Don't play dumb, you're at the top of the list most likely because you're attractive.
Guys like attractive.
2006-12-12 12:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, guys usually like to friends with attractive girls even if they won't sleep with them, it just makes them think they look good because they are around an attractive girl, ATTRATIVE GIRLS BRING ATTENTION, and that will draw attention to them too for being around them, and men like sex just like girls like sex, it's just that men would rather make it more public that they want it instead of keeping their mouths shut.
2006-12-12 14:22:58 · answer #6 · answered by Gordita de Oro 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your man is talking smak behimd your back to people.Well obviously your a gymnest they probably think you can streach very wide and very bendy guys like that.
2006-12-12 12:28:39 · answer #7 · answered by tino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not every guys think about sex.maybe it's a compliment or you are too hot for them
2006-12-12 12:26:40 · answer #8 · answered by applejuice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because guys have penises...
They DO think with their "heads" though...Just not the right one.
2006-12-12 12:26:25 · answer #9 · answered by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, I honestly don't know. Probably inactive hormones....
2006-12-12 12:25:18 · answer #10 · answered by Michael S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋