Being in a relationship for 2 years and for the first year my partner not only told me that he loved me he showed me in many different ways too. The sex was the best i have ever had and it still is to dis day. My problem is that I'm still very much in love with him and I will give it up to him anytime of the day if he wants it. But he tells me that he still loves me but he dont show me nor do he say it like he use to. So I'm feeling that he do loves me but he's not in love with me anymore. It's like when every we do anything even have sex it's when he wants it. It's always somthing when I ask for it. We don't go out anymore not even to a $8.00 movies he rather watch a bootyleg movie with me instead. I love this man so much but I'm not getting the same love back like I use to. I use to feel the love he had for me but now I'm just like a person who he hangs out with every now and then and have sex with. I don't like the how our relationship is going now but he's find with it.
2006-12-12 12:17:38 · 4 answers · asked by mnmpeices 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds to me like either he has fallen out of love with you, but does still love you... or maybe there is another person on the side (not to give you wrong impressions, just assumption), or maybe he knows that he has gotten you now and he doesnt have to do those extra things... because you are his now and he knows you love him, etc... hopefully its the last one.... talk to him about it and let him know how you feel. if those things make you happy, let him know that and if he's willing to do them again with you... he is still in love with you.
2006-12-12 12:34:49 · answer #1 · answered by Qs and As 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I know the feeling... sometimes people just get too comfortable... and I think the best thing you can do is be honest with him and tell him how you're feeling. It wont be easy, but he might not even suspect anything is wrong, unless you tell him how you're feeling. If he really love and want to be with you, he will try to be more considerate to your needs before he loses you. And if "he's" to good to consider your feelings... then you really dont need to be bothered with him.
Truly
ElleXiz
2006-12-12 12:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by Ellexiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is called being comfortable with the person you are with accepting them as they are and accepting you the way you are. money doesnt grown on trees, i was married for 30 years and watched every show on earth that i hated with a passion because i knew he like them and i just wanted to be with him. (how boring do you really think watching on tv bowling, golf, fishing, outdoor hunting, you get the idea)
2006-12-12 12:23:37 · answer #3 · answered by c504play 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe he just wants to be friends and he might not be sure how to bring it up. It could be possible that he may not know exactly how you feel. Try talking to him about it. He may just be waiting for you to say something.
2006-12-12 12:37:40 · answer #4 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋