Me and my bf are like a really good couple,out of school. but at school we NEVER talk. But we usually talk on the phone likke4 and hour and when he came to my house we made out and cuddled and crap. what do i do !
2006-12-12 11:52:08 · 26 answers · asked by Sarah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ive asked him whyhe never talks to me and hes said well talk more, but we dont. ill say hi nad hell just shrug me off
2006-12-12 12:06:16 · update #1
weve been going otu for 3 weeks
2006-12-12 12:07:10 · update #2
yeah he says hi sometimes. BUT TODAY WE TALKED AT SCHOOL!!!YEAH
2006-12-13 09:14:31 · update #3
yeah he says hi sometimes. BUT TODAY WE TALKED AT SCHOOL!!!YEAH
2006-12-13 09:14:35 · update #4
Talk to him about it instead of talking to the ppl on yahoo answers.
If you never talk to him about it, how is he supposed to "know" that you are upset about this...Boys are not psychic...they don't need little "subtle" hints...they need you to say "this is what is going on, this is what we need to do to fix it..."
Also: don't just not talk to him because he isn't talking to you...it works 2 ways...you talk to him first, and maybe he will talk to you...maybe he was doing the same thing...not talking to you because you weren't talking to him.
You need to COMMUNICATE with eachother, not just over the phone. If you guys cannot communicate with eachother in person, then there really isn't a relationship...unless you want to communicate on the phone for the rest of your life...TALK TO HIM!
2006-12-12 11:55:22 · answer #1 · answered by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him at school one day and see how he reacts. If he acts like he doesn't want to be bothered he is keeping you a secret for some reason so get to the bottom of it ASAP. If he acts OK he was just waiting to see what you were going to do. He probably thought you didn't want people to know about you two.
2006-12-12 20:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Conservative 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there...He probably doesnt even realize this like you do...Have you tried asking him why you two never talk at school?
Dont push the issue too much, but just casually ask it sometime and see what he says..
If hes doin it on purpose...like hes too good, or doesnt have to treat u good in public like he does in private, then maybe its time to find someone who will treat you right all the time.
2006-12-12 19:57:58 · answer #3 · answered by San DIego Chargers 21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him about it. Do you just not get the chance to talk at school? Is it just that you don't talk, or do you not even hang out? Different peer groups? Could it be that he doesn't want his friends to know about you? It really depends on the variables, and so many factors could play into it.
2006-12-12 19:56:11 · answer #4 · answered by Dani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happens a lot! guyz dont want to look sensitive in front of their friends and they try to avoid girls when they are around them and this happens with about everyone i know. i think if he does that at school then maybe you should talk to him in school. like at first just say hi or something in the halls or at lunch. ask him what class he's going to or tell him to give you a call and he'll get used to it. but guyz do that a lot. so you have to encourage him! but dont sound desperate!
2006-12-12 19:57:49 · answer #5 · answered by maryam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at school relationships are troublesom. and it gets people talking more than need be. and it's not needed. out of school, you can be yourself. at school, everyone has a different persona. also, he is with his friends and you with yours. is it really such a big deal to get that little kiss in the hall or to have him walk you to school or sit next to you at lunch? personally, it would annoy me. i don't mind seeing people everyday, but in a school setting, or a work setting, it gets really old really fast, and it's way too easy for things to be misunderstood. i say it's best you all just do your thing out side of school. besides, school isn't a date, it's a place to learn.
2006-12-12 19:57:32 · answer #6 · answered by KingLegolasG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if u want to come closer wit ur bf u need to be willing to give him space. But if he feels the same way u guys need to tell all of ur friends that one day a week u just want to be alone. Just time for the 2 of u.
Have fun and if that doesn't work i am sorry..
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2006-12-12 19:57:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How often do you see him in school (is he in the same classes)? Does he at least say HI?
Perhaps he wants to keep his personal life out of his school life?
I don't know, I'd need more information than this to say.
2006-12-12 20:03:24 · answer #8 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you just got together then that is good. Relationships take time to get serious. Invite him on dates and go on double dates with your friends. Talk to him and tell him you want to talk to him more. Peace out. L8Rz. Luv/Kodi
2006-12-12 19:54:21 · answer #9 · answered by Kodi F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys like to keep things private especially around school.I can remember what theother guys ask and say about when I was dating in school.It made it alittle hard to show her attention and it didnt last lng.SO you need space and trust to make any relationship last.The less people know is usually better and safer for people involved.
2006-12-12 19:56:06 · answer #10 · answered by Donald D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋