Help me!!!!!!!?
i really like my best friend. we tell eachother everything and we never lie to eachother. and when he asks who i like i feel bad cause i have to lie to him cause i know i can't tell him. we have tried going out before but it didn't work out but that was 4ever ago. i don't wanna tell him cause i know he doesn't like me and i am affraid that that might make our friendship awkward. should i tell him and hope he doesn't act weird or should i just leave it how it is and lie to him?
2006-12-12 11:43:52 · 14 answers · asked by ♥nikki♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you can't lie to him because you don't do that so you will have to tell the truth and hope it works out.
2006-12-12 11:47:24 · answer #1 · answered by teresa.edmonds@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him how you feel, me and my best friend were off and on for about 5 and 1/2 years and now we've been married for almost a year and i'm having his baby in june, so if i were you i'd tell him how you feel because you never know it could turn out to be the best thing that could ever happen to you???
still dreaming in idaho
stacy
2006-12-12 11:47:47 · answer #2 · answered by Stacy ` B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth it will work out better over all most likely. If he is ur real friend and doesnt like u back he will sill b there for u. Hope everything works out.
2006-12-12 11:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's how I see it. You can put yourself through this mental torture on a daily basis for ever and ever. Or, you can tell him everything you said above and see where it goes. I think you should just give it a shot or you might just drive yourself crazy with this.
2006-12-12 11:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. I am in the same situation. However if he asks you don't lie.
But I know what you mean about making it awkward I have liked my best friend for 4 years and have not told him for that reason.
If you find a situation to this problem please let me know.
Good Luck :)
2006-12-12 11:51:58 · answer #5 · answered by Alley 9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he wants this to remain a friendship... otherwise he'd make the first move. You should probably separate yourself from him until you can get over your crush on him. Value the friendship and move on.
2006-12-12 11:46:46 · answer #6 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just show him your feelings for him then when he finds out tell him u just want to be friends because you don't wanna mess that up.
2006-12-12 11:49:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah, its cool.. just explain how you feel and if he doesnt feel the same way no big deal... i have a friend and i told her that i like her... she doesnt like me back but it hasnt changed our relationship.
this is how i said it:
me: hey ... just wanted to say i like you...
her: really?
me: yeah... is there a problem with that?
her: no
u have to say it in a completly casual way though
2006-12-12 11:49:33 · answer #8 · answered by ryanisalifestyle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay upfront to him you still like him then if he doesnt then just be ok with it. This is what my friends Mercedes did.
2006-12-12 11:47:09 · answer #9 · answered by Shelby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him.just say 'i like you' n close the case.let him take the second step
2006-12-12 11:46:38 · answer #10 · answered by applejuice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋