i went out with this guy and we broke up and he was my first kiss and now im kinda over him but whenever i watch paula deandas video walk away at the part when she says "does he call me in the middle of the day just to say baby i love you like u used to" i cry everytime bcuz he used to do that and now i dont know what to do. i like someone else but im not sure if im over him yet... help me please! give me options... i dont want to keep crying
2006-12-12 11:36:18 · 9 answers · asked by MANDERS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You poor thing... I totally can relate to it... I mean, I was so in - love wit' my 1 yr. and a 1/2 ex boyfriend... he was my first love and everything but, yet I still had madd love for him... but honey... you can do this seriously... I mean, I kno' it hurts because he was your first kiss... but everyone goes thru' it you kno'... first time is always the sucky part and everything... but it's life... thats what life do, but at the end... in the long run... we find happiness thats waiting at the end of the road... to me "LOVE" is a strong word... like that one saying: Blood is thicker then Water.... everything happens for a reason... maybe he wasn't the one... jus' be patient, because your one true knight and shining armor will be knocking at heavens door, looking for you... live life to the fullest, life is too short to set your mind on something thats never gonna come back... so smile... and be patient... kuz' God has a very special plan for you... don't cry... and stop listening to sad love songs... it's only going to kill you.... think of happy thoughts... but take it easy out there....
2006-12-12 11:47:07 · answer #1 · answered by MINA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that there will be people who will pass by your life that are not meant for you or if you are meant for each other this may not be the right time and situation. God put people in our lives for a reason. Just learn to accept and let go. Accepting is different from forgetting. We can not just forget someone who has been a big part of our life especially if we really loved them BUT once you accepted that it is over now and you have to move on wiht your own life, find your own happiness then you will see that evrything will be just fine. Pray a lot,no matter how difficult it is to deal with love the Lord has the best plan for you and prepared that special someone for you..okay ? Then try to avoid listening to music that will constantly remind you of him.Cheer up. It's not the end of the world for you just because the guy did not care about losing you. Hope this helps. God bless
2006-12-12 11:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by justurangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say time heals all wounds. That simply isn't true, at least 40 years hasn't for me. It is much much duller than in the beginning but it is something I expect to carry to my grave.
I don't know the song that sets you off, but I do know "He Stopped Loving Her Today" by George Jones. It can be tough but even if it is always a part of you time will dull the ache. Just try to remember the good times. I am 58 a year old man, and still feel things. I would guess you are in your early teens.
Remember; it's OK for young ladies to cry.
2006-12-12 11:51:33 · answer #3 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not much you can do about that... It's like I cry every time I see the ending of About Schmidt, but emotions are a great thing. I don't cry often, but after I do I feel better... then I have a cigarette (not recommending that, lol)
Embrace your emotions and feel better after you cry. Just think about that and it'll put things into perspective.
2006-12-12 11:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww. just let me say that im going through the same thing. my boy friend of 2 and a half years just broke up with me 2 weeks ago. im still not over him. and he already has a gf. i look at our pictures and my box of our memories and all i do is cry. heartbreak is one of the hardest things to go through. it hurts badly. it makes you feel like your not worthy. and then after you dont want to do ****. all you want to do is sit around and mope. i did. i didnt eat for like 3 or 4 days. just have fun. thats all i can say. go hang out with boys. if your not ready to start liking other guys then dont. im starting to hang out with guys and now my ex is getting jealous and hes saying he misses me. once he sees that you have moved on and that your with other guys. he will come back to you. and realize that he messed up. be strong. dont let him see how sad you are. i know how you feel. im going through the same thing right now. just be strong. and you can do it!
2006-12-12 11:44:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing happened to all of us :'-( you'll get over it eventually, i didnt i would either but yeah i did eventually. it takes time and if their not a stuck up b**** (cough cough) (not referring to anyone here) then they'll wait for you to get over them until they move onto someone else. life goes on and theres always more fish in the sea even though this last person might have been the best so far there might be better. next time dont let them slip away.... :'-(
2006-12-12 11:44:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That what is called love...
2006-12-12 13:52:12 · answer #7 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep on crying untell u get over it ..... it works seriously.....
2006-12-12 11:43:54 · answer #8 · answered by love_alw_693 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cry on girl chix are sexy wen there crying
2006-12-12 11:39:41 · answer #9 · answered by #1 joker 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋