All of my friends have been in a relationship with a guy. I'm the only person who never had a boyfriend. Its been bothering me this whole year. most of the time all they talk about is there boyfriend. I've never been on a real date either. I don't get it no guy has notinced me once at the high school. now its my sophomore year and i still don't have a boyfriend yet. most of the guys at the school just like girls who are dumb ,real skinny. I'm 15 years old and still never kissed a guy or had sex or been in a real realationship before.
2006-12-12 11:30:54 · 18 answers · asked by Alicia-brandon15 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what's the matter alicia.
2006-12-12 11:32:52 · answer #1 · answered by Breauna P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man. I wish that was the case for me. To never be kissed or have sex is a blessing. Having a boyfriend is a superficial status symbol in high school. Girls just love the drama and the attention. Personally, I think it is best to stay away for guys. At that age, they are nothing but trouble. Take it from someone who dated a lot in high school. After lots of dating, I wished I didn't date because I could have given my husband more of my heart and body. I know you are 15 and this may sound like a bunch of crap but it is my personal experience. Your education will take you further than any guy. Continue to be smart and love who you are. Don't change for the chance to get a boyfriend. The time will come when a man will love you so much that he will notice you for who you are and pursue you. Wait for that. It will be worth it.
2006-12-12 19:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by Ann Ducketts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a good person and have your whole life ahead of you. You may want to think twice about getting into relationships because everyone else is. The decisions you make today stay with you for the rest of your life. I would love to be in a relationship myself and feel invisible at times but I'm hanging in there. The right person will come around and you will know him when he does.
2006-12-12 19:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by jamv0051 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH well see not everyone has a boyfriend. and thats ok im usually one with one and i got a friend who is just as good as me but she trys too hard shell like a guy and bug them to they cant stand her no more i tell her to just back off and let them come to her. see u probley dont understand that youll find the perfect someone some day it may be a while from now but its worth the wait.. caus guy some time get in the way and theyre be days when they hurt your feelings and youll cry and they act like they dont care theres other ways to be happy without guys trust me
2006-12-12 19:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by michellie d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I know exactly how you feel, but if your friends won't shut up about there biyfriends to help include you in thier conversations then talk to them about it. As for the boyfriend thing don't worry about it, especially not the sex part. When the right guy comes along you'll know it, untill then don't settle for anything less than you deserve. Don't settle for those dumb guys in your school, you deserve better, so don't compare yourself to your friends ok?
2006-12-12 19:37:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guys like dumb, skinny girls, then that's their fault and not yours. Sooner or later, they'll mature and see you as the great girl i'm sure you are. I hadn't been in a relationship by the time I was 15, and I know a lot of others who hadn't either, and all of us have turned out quite fine and in very healthy relationships. Just give it time, and it should turn out great!
2006-12-12 19:35:41 · answer #6 · answered by brian w 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's perfectly ok, u still have a whole life ahead of u 2 find someone u love, someone told me that when ur older ur smarter in relationships. that's true and besides why would u want 2 be dumb,ur smart and beautiful and keep that in mind u don't need a guy 2 complete u. let those girls brag, don't listen 2 them, they may be getting hurt later on.
2006-12-12 19:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by ms_curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 15 please don't have sex whether you have a boyfriend or not.
Having sex isn't just "a thing you do".....it's supposed to be very special and you should do it with someone who thinks you're special.
He should be someone who'll be around for awhile....not gone the next day.
Don't measure yourself against anybody else....you'll have a boyfriend when the time is right. In the meantime just have fun being 15.
2006-12-12 19:36:15 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant 5 or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; 6 it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. 7 Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.8 Love never ends.
2006-12-12 19:34:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are still young....i know it's hard but focus on school and the guys will come when it's time. don't rush in to anything especially sex just because all your friends are.
2006-12-12 19:38:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you dont need to rush into things with boys. you are 15 you dont need to have sex. it will only start trouble and then boys around your school will start to think you are easy. just be yourself. dont rush into things. i know boys mean alot in school. and its hard to see your friends with their boy friends. but they will end up getting hurt in the end. and your gonna be the one that is single and be like "yeah..im glad i dont have to go through that heartbreak" boys are liars and just trouble. until your completely ready dont rush into anything! you still have a ways to go!
2006-12-12 19:37:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋