2006-12-12 11:28:11 · 7 answers · asked by greysanatomylover3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Throw yourself into a new project, be it a new boy or hobby, distraction is the key!
2006-12-12 11:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, no offense here, but these "how do I get over him/her" are getting kind of tiring. It's been done over and over with generally the same advice over and over. So, here are some tips on how to get over them after a breakup... .
1) Cut off all communication: that means don't talk to them; delete/erase phone numbers, e-mail addresses, IM addresses, etc.; don't look up profiles or seek them out in any way, shape or fashion. This will keep you from that urge to contact them.
2) Get rid of any gifts, notes, letters, etc. that are sentimental to you: don't give them back to your ex. Give them away to Goodwill, whatever. Do not keep them.
3) Hang out with friends.
4) Don't jump into another relationship. This is unfair to a new partner if you are not over your ex.
5) Do something active: run, exercise, go see a movie, go shopping, etc.
6) Try to think about all the things you did NOT like about your partner. People break up for a reason.
7) Write your thoughts down in a journal or write a letter to your ex about how you feel about everything... DO NOT give it to them.
8) Remember to not be afraid to be alone. It's not the end of the world and you will always find someone else down the road. It is OK to be alone.
9) Do not try and be friends with your ex UNLESS you can get over them. Once you are over them, then you can think about being friends with them. If you are not over them and you continue with contacting them, you will not be able to get over them especially when they are dating someone new.
10) Do not wallow in alcohol. It will only make you feel worse... trust me on this one.
11) It takes time...
2006-12-12 11:44:35 · answer #2 · answered by Chikia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely it truly is a habit that i do no longer favor to interrupt. i have were given were given a pal on good the following that I seek for suggestion from with, as with out delay as we initiate talking before all persons comprehend it a pair hours has handed, i imagine of shall we purely communicate for hours and hours, nicely we've somewhat. lol he's particularly uncomplicated and exciting to speak to.
2016-11-25 23:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by estremera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im trying to do exactly that. Getting over a really hard break up. I just try to keep myself busy. I wouldnt look for another relationship because im really worried i would mess it up because im not ready
2006-12-12 11:33:36 · answer #4 · answered by Lovely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleep with his best mate. or at least flirt with him. it really annoys them, then get with sum FIT. if he starts ringing, cancel calls. cut him out your life completely. more u talk, harder it is. xx
2006-12-12 11:57:45 · answer #5 · answered by Beets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to just take it day by day. Your heart will heal with time. If it is meant to be then it will be.
2006-12-12 11:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by Effie M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look at some new hotties
2006-12-12 11:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by gottabridin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋