My father's eldest sister who aged 51, unmarried but having relationship with a married man. She stayed in our family home for few years already. She likes to take care of other ppl business though it's nth to do with her. It's so irritating. Whatever ppl did, she likes to comment but how perfect she is, she never look at herself. She's also a ***** snatching ppl's husband. She did contribute some allowance to our family expenses but that doesn't mean she can say whatever she likes without considering other ppl's feeling. My whole family was so dislike her but she never realise it and always thinks she's perfect. Doesn't make sense at all. How to make her shut her mouth and never mind other ppl's business. We are all old enough to think for ourselves but she's always at the back complaining to outside ppl that we owed her money (that she contribute) so she has the right to take care of our matter. Is it all unmarried woman always behave like this?
2006-12-12 11:25:10 · 8 answers · asked by mida 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Menopause? Maybe she has no close relatives so she keep on commenting on our family. I just need a solution to keep her shut and don't always mind other ppl's business. She might like commenting but others might don't like to hear it. What she did always makes me bad mood for the whole day at work. I might not be always right but my parents can comment to me myself. Why she always want to be so busy with it??? She's not my anyone, anyway..
2006-12-12 12:04:06 · update #1
Not all unmarried women behave this way. It is a question of this woman's character. The only place that age may be concerned is the fact that middle aged people tend to have less give than younger women. They are more set in their ways.
2006-12-12 11:28:45 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move..... You don't need that in you life. If your too young, you'll have to put up with it until you can move. Watch what you say or do, so she cannot say anything about you to others if she has no information. This is also good within the working environment. If you don't want everyone to know your personal matters, don't say anything. It is harder when she is in your home, but you can keep to yourself what you want to. Good luck and some ppl are just that way.
2006-12-12 11:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's just her. My godmother never married but she was a wonderful truly caring person. If you didn't tell us how old she is, I couldn't say she's 51. From what you describe, she could be an annoying lady of any age.
2006-12-12 11:29:36 · answer #3 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men committed to a relationship don't hand out their phone numbers at random to women who "need marital advice". He's already "gotten into some engagements" - why doesnt that surprise me? It's kind of ironic that he's a substance abuse counselor, addicted to attention.
2016-03-13 06:15:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her if you screwed with a married man like her, will that shut her up about your faults and make you perfect like her?
2006-12-12 11:39:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah yea menopause....thats an easy answer...I am 50 and I dont act like an idiot.
Maybe she is just a jerk, did any of you think of that
2006-12-12 15:48:40 · answer #6 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she needs to get a life of her own, then she would not have time to butt into everyone else' business.
2006-12-12 11:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they do and most of the married one do too
2006-12-12 11:30:37 · answer #8 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called menopause.
2006-12-12 11:27:24 · answer #9 · answered by wizzygirl10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋