Ok, so there is this guy, he is one of my friends and we hang out alot and always do the most random and fun things. About six months ago we messed around one night (not alot but a little) and then we stopped being friends. But like the past week we have been hanging out almost every day. And I promised myself that I wouldn't do anything with him because I don't just want a "Friends With Benefits" type of relationship. I am too afraid to tell him that I really like him though because I am afraid of rejection. What should I do?
2006-12-12 11:25:02 · 6 answers · asked by Rachel K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all you can do is let him know how you feel......and take it from there.....
2006-12-12 11:27:38 · answer #1 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, here's a real quandry! You like this guy, and you don't want to "do anything" with him! Would you rather "do anything" with someone you don't like!!!
Tell how you feel and that you want to see if he feels the same about you. At your age, and I'm guessing ~~teens?, you are approaching sexual curiousness?!?! Just be careful with each other and have respect for each other and be friends. Let him know that "maybe" "someday" but you mayneed some time for the "do anything" moment.
If he's really a good guy for you, he'll respect that!
2006-12-12 19:34:15 · answer #2 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jay is right. Tell him how you feel. He might like you too, but is afraid to tell you too.
2006-12-12 19:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by Pure_Alpha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to find out if he loves you ask him quetions like "would you jump off a building just so i could live" just try to see if he care for you more than a frend would.
2006-12-12 19:51:36 · answer #4 · answered by wizzle3p0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should do some stuff that he likes in women so ask him first the do some things he likes in girls then ask him out
2006-12-12 19:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by cody b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think jay is right hun!
2006-12-12 19:29:10 · answer #6 · answered by Laila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋