Roxy likes me,its obvious. --Im not into her like that.I told her Id call her tomorrow and tell her how I feel about her "likeing me alot" as her friend put it.Personally I wouldnt mind a friend.but well she not my type (in other words,body matters to me....im 18 so,I can be like that right?)
bottomline:she barely knows me at all.I plan on saying "you hardly know me.get to know me then decide if you like me"....BUT its wierd already you know.She wants to see my abs and ****,it is NOT gonna work.How can I say "Id rather stay single than get with you cuz your a chubby spoiled brat,with a crush"--in a nice way that can't be misinterpreted.
2006-12-12 11:19:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what does chubby have to do with it???????? no you cant be like that just because your 18, didn't your mother teach you any morals or values...respect women no matter their looks or size, don't be so shallow and why don't you just date the girl, im sure that with an attitude like yours she will dump you in a second.....problem solved
2006-12-12 11:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, if ur not interested, ur not. Tell her 'u think she's a great friend, but that is all u c her as, a friend. There's nothing wrong with her, obviously or u would'nt hang out w her, but u like being her friend.' A crush of mine used that line, and I swear it was the most tactful and kind thing he could have possibly said. Keep it short and honest. If she gets pissed, her prob not urs. She probably will, but give her time to get over it. If she values u as a friend, she'll move on to some other guy.
2006-12-12 19:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by blackanubis9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth in a mature way (be honest without hurting her feelings). By saying "you hardly know me.get to know me then decide if you like me" you are not going to get your point across. You need to be more direct - I don't want to be with you. You are a (nice, intelligent, pretty, popular) girl, but I don't see us as a couple.
2006-12-12 19:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by sandcatsle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell her get to know you first it is sending the wrong message. Be honest -kindly. Just say youre really flattered she feels that way but you dont think you can be more than friends with her.If she presses you as to why then say theres just no feelings there like that. Don't lead her on
2006-12-12 19:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by Basket-santa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her in a kind way that you would like to be her friend, (the body of a friend should not matter all that much, anyway). Just maybe she will take the hint.
2006-12-12 19:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know, "hey i'm not really looking for a relationship right now. but I'd still like to be friends." If that doesn't work, then you need to take it up a notch and let her know that you really don't like her. But don't show her any of your body, she'll take it as bait and run with it.
2006-12-12 19:23:28 · answer #6 · answered by Rayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she asks, let her know that you are not interested. Don't be mean and tell her she is shubby and spoiled. If you tell her your not interested that will hurt her feelings, but if you tell her the chubby part then that will give her a double wammy!!
2006-12-12 19:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by truebeing3030 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh Shallow 18 year olds gotta Love em' ... You tell her shes a great girl but your just not into her like that.... She asks you why. Tell her your not physically attracted... Give her props for having the guts to tell you she was into you... Good luck with that ....
2006-12-12 19:22:54 · answer #8 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, yes u could say that so could i! I am ur age, so hahaha! But tell her this
Roxy,
I think u r wonderfull, i really do, i think that... ok i have 2 say this i wanna see different people, it's not u it's me, i am just that way!!
or just tell her that ur gay, or have a guy walk by and say look at that guys *** yum!
2006-12-12 19:25:20 · answer #9 · answered by Laila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your too young to get in a relationship and that you'll be her freind but your a "player" and you wanna stay in the game.
2006-12-12 19:27:45 · answer #10 · answered by plumbinmonkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋