I had my first kiss Dec.8th. My mom dosn't know and I don't really want to tell her either. I'm afriad she'll find out...I'm not even supposed to have a boyfriend yet! What do I do?
2006-12-12 11:09:20 · 17 answers · asked by sassysassle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just talk to her about it. Although it terrifies them, all mothers have to come to the reality eventually that their daughters have to grow up some time.
Explain to your mom what happened, and tell her that you really want her to know about it, that you feel guilty not telling her and that you need her as a supportive role model for your relationship. Being a mother, she should come to her senses.
2006-12-12 11:11:56 · answer #1 · answered by Fur and Fiction 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? she might be right... anyway, don't sweat it. tell her you're kind of liking this guy and she'll probably say something about her little sweety growing up and then you can gradually be more relaxed w/ ur bf in front of her. (just no making out, that's ALWAYS a bad idea to do in front of parents.)
2006-12-12 19:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by go2bermuda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A mother should be very kind and understanding. If she can't except that you are ready, then she needs to learn how to communicate with you better. You shouldn't have to tell her things, you and you mother should be open. Talk to your school councelor or another family member (cousin, aunt, any other girl you can trust.)
2006-12-12 19:13:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem but without the kiss and i dont know how to tell my mom i dont think she'll mind but i dont want to take the chance of asking her
2006-12-12 19:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't tell her. Kissing is not that big of a deal, and neither is having a boyfriend. What she doesn't know won't hurt her!
2006-12-12 19:14:28 · answer #5 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a kiss.. its something innocent.. How old are you?... Don't worry about your mom, if she ask's then just tell her the truth.. I am sure she won't get mad.. the worst thing she can say is "don't do it again"..
2006-12-12 19:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to talk it out with her than you should but if not than dont say anything she wonbt find out unless you say something to her or someone else that will tell her
2006-12-12 19:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by Nicole M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is the time to start bonding with your mom, the more you are open and honest with her the more she is going to trust you. your mom remembers her first kiss too.
2006-12-12 19:13:17 · answer #8 · answered by cott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry.Wait and tell her in afew years thats what I did with my folks.But tell your friends though!
2006-12-12 19:11:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your mouth shut and just hope you get another one soon. remember never kiss and tell
2006-12-12 19:11:48 · answer #10 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋