I am so confused. For the last year and half i have been in a mediocre relationship. i was deeply in love with my boyfriend but many things about him bothered me. it was not the perfect relationship, but i wanted it to work. Recently i was getting fed up with him and i met someone new. this new guy is really great. So, i started pulling away from my boyfriend ever so slightly and now he is acting how i have always wanted him to. My boyfriend does not know about the other guy. i am so confused. i feel bombarded with other peoples opinions and pressured to actually make a choice. any ideas? or have you been in this situation?
2006-12-12 11:07:36 · 4 answers · asked by jay-z8900 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here's my opinion: I think your boyfriend knows he is losing you since you pulled away from him some, so now he is trying to act like he knows you want him to so you won't leave him. Once he gets used to you again, the same thing will probably happen...
2006-12-12 11:11:58 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u really love your boyfriend tell him what u want from him and give him a chance to change but ask yourself if this is the guy you want to spend the rest of your life with?????
2006-12-12 19:14:12 · answer #2 · answered by Karen B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in the situation and I might be a bit jaded when I say I don't think people can change.
2006-12-12 19:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by MrPerson13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, make a list of things that you are looking for in a guy......then a list of things that you like about your BF....see if they match up
2006-12-12 19:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by CK1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋