My bf n i were kissing n front of my friend who has liked me 4 a long time and still does yet he also hates me now. By, the way we were just closed mouth kissing around him. Now he's really mad n upset. He wants 2 punch my bf in the face n get a girl to beat me up. (she has 5 older brothers n fights everyone around here) He used 2 luv me now he hates me. Wut shud I do? I apreatiete everyones imput thanks!
2006-12-12 11:05:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You all need to sit down and discuss this. Well he's mad that your doing this in front of him and you know he likes you so your pretty much rubbing it in his face. He does have a right to be mad at you in a way but he is going a little far wanting to beat up your bf. Talk to him about this and maybe don't kiss in front of him. He is not comfortable with this so its best not to do it infront of him
HOpe that helps
2006-12-12 11:10:07 · answer #1 · answered by Dan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off...you did nothing wrong! You are allowed to show your affection with your b/f and it seems you did it in a completely acceptable manner. Closed mouthed kissing in front of someone is fine. Secondly, and unfortunately, you've found out that this friend is not the good friend you thought he was. I'm sorry! But, there's nothing you can do about him. As for his threats of punching your b/f in the face and having someone beat you up...that's completely childish!! In my opinion, you don't need a friend like that and you should stay away from him altogether. You and your b/f just watch your back and try to avoid any bad situations for now. I'm sure it will all blow over soon and you and your b/f can go on and live happily without an immature idiot in your lives. Hang out with other friends who appreciate you and your b/f's relationship and are happy for the two of you! So sorry this is happening to you!
Good luck!!
2006-12-12 11:14:39 · answer #2 · answered by pillowtalk504 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not your friend or he wouldn't want to harm you or anyone you love. Remind him that, and ask him what is such a surprise because he knew you were dating the guy. Tell him you like him only as a friend, and you won't if he continues this behavior. Tell him that you're sorry it hurt his feelings, but if it's too painful that he should probably not come around you until he gets over those angry emotions. Also, appeal to the fact that domestic violence is against the law, and tell him that you will press charges if anyone lays a hand on you or your guy. Let someone in your family know how he is acting, and if you think he is serious in his intent to harm you then you should probably contact the local authorities and ask for advice.
2006-12-12 11:14:12 · answer #3 · answered by MiMi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is crazy! You have the right to kiss your BF in front of anyone you choose..that's why he's your BF..and if your supposed "friend" now wants to beat you and your boyfriend up over this, I think it is time to call the law on his ***..zero tolerance for violence..he sounds pretty obsessive, hon! Take it from me, get intervention now before it becomes out of control. Good luck!
2006-12-12 11:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This friend is obviously not very loyal. If he wants to punch you over you kissing your boyfriend...well, that doesn't really make sense. Did he expect you to date the guy and never touch him?
I would try to talk to this friend if I were you and see what the real deal is. Maybe he's angered over something that he heard or assumed. Make sure that you are trying to resolve this friendship because you value him as a friend, not because you like the attention of having another boy who is after you.
2006-12-12 11:08:29 · answer #5 · answered by Fur and Fiction 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow....uve got quite a situation there honestly u need to drop him someone trying to pull a stunt like that is not someone u need around if he really cared for u the way u say he does he'd understand u and know that he really has no right to be getting mad and trying to stir up all this drama totall unessecary and immature, tell the boy to grow up and let it go, if he really loved u he'd understand that at this time ur with someone else right now and realize that maybe it won't happen now but maybe his time will coem soon.
2006-12-12 11:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by roxyangel0007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you don't need friends like that. i can understand him being hurt, but to try and beat your BF up or have some girls beat you up is just childish! Although I must say it's tacky to be makin' out in front of people like that. But this friend obviously has feelings for you that run deeper than friendship and you don't need to "rub salt in those wounds" by swappin' spit with your boyfriend in front of him. Apologize for your inappropriate behavior but make it clear to him, that you guys are JUST friends. If he can't learn to accept that, you don't need him as a friend.
2006-12-12 11:13:27 · answer #7 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ought to really double examine consisting of your wellbeing care specialist, they understand your particular case and also you do not opt to threat bub for a couple of minutes of feeling fairly wonderful. it will be an orgasm on my own which may reason issues so that you probable ought to examine only to be on the secure aspect. if you're only too shy, embarassed and so on to ask the record only attempt to carry off for yet another 2 weeks, babies have a large survival fee if born after 20 weeks as they are completely shaped. reliable success!
2016-10-18 04:43:16 · answer #8 · answered by ridinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From his point of view, I'd say the two of you were taunting him. I mean, really - kissing in public is always a bit gauche, and doing it in front of a guy who has a crush on you is just plain mean. He probably felt like you were doing it deliberately and now he wants to hurt you like you hurt him!
You ought to apologize to him and explain that you hadn't realized that you were being rude, and that you won't do it again in front of him.
However, he doesn't really sound like the nicest of guys, either. If I were you, I wouldn't hang out with him in the future.
2006-12-12 11:16:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
go talk to this guy! ask him WHY he hates you and how you can prevent this hatred. this problem wont get solved from just ignoring eachother. confront him and talk to him about this, nicely though. it may work and it may not. it has worked for many of my friends but it didnt work for me cuz the guy was a jackass! lol but still you should try. if he doesnt talk or still hates you then just backoff and ignore him. he'll get the message that you dont care about what he's doing this way and stop. but dont let your boyfriend confront him cuz that''ll just make things worse. hope i helped!
2006-12-12 11:13:35 · answer #10 · answered by maryam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋