My boyfriend says that the 2 month rule is for people making $30,000/year and his coworkers agree. He's thinks a little less than one month's salary is suitable, and I agree, especially with student loans and a mortgage. I'm just curious if others agree, if you are making $100,000 a year, is it ridiculous to spend about $17,000 on a ring? How about $6,000?
2006-12-12 11:04:11 · 21 answers · asked by Frances 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Jewelry is a terrible investment. Those "2 months and three months" things are a MARKETING GIMMICK and nothing more. You may even be happy with a $100 ring-- why put a price tag on sentiment?
Get whatever ring you like and can logically afford. There is no "formula" or amount you "should" spend.
If it matters to you, you may want to look into recycled gold rings from greenkarat.com and also gems that are certified to be conflict free, like those from Canada, or re-use antique gems (all mining for gold and minerals is really TERRIBLE for the environment, so even if conflict-free your jewelry could have caused up to 200 tons of pollution-- so clearly, recycling gems would be a great thing).
2006-12-12 11:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by Etiquette Gal 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's usual to get the best ring that you can afford, and to go for quality rather then just size. That rule is just a ball park figure, it's not a hard and fast rule about buying an engagement ring. You don't just take your salary and think, ok I can buy this ring, you have to consider the debts that you may already have, the wishes and taste of the girl, and also sometimes there may be a family ring to be passed down to the bride. The two month rule is just a guide, you might want to spend a little more or a little less then that. It's good to shop around for the best price both on line and in stores. Go to a reputable site or store and educate yourself before buying any engagement ring.
2006-12-12 14:35:50 · answer #2 · answered by Beauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, what the hell are you gonna do with a $17,000 ring!? Even $6,000 is ridiculous! My boyfriend makes comparable money to yours and if he spent that much money on a ring I'd have to seriously think about what else he does with his money. How would you feel to have a ring on your finger worth more than a lot of people make in a year! Well, maybe you'd like that, but I would feel awful. My dream engagement ring is less than $900, and I feel that's too expensive! Maybe in a few years when you guys have spent all your money you'll rethink this whole thing. Good luck.
2006-12-12 12:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by kameka 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it should matter how much you make as to what you spend on a ring. It's what the ring symbolizes. Even you get a million dollar ring or a $500 ring....you're still going to be just as engaged. Money will not buy you happiness. So, the price of the ring should not matter.
2006-12-12 11:14:38 · answer #4 · answered by First Lady 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
two months salary is a jewelers suggestion as to the amount you should spend. The amount you spend should reflect what you can comfortably afford. You love can't be measured by the size to the stone. Many plain gold band work fine and last a lifetime. Do not over spend.
2006-12-12 11:14:36 · answer #5 · answered by sweetpicker 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No amount is "rediculous" if it's what the propose'r wants to do for you. Some people spend the rest of their lives paying ring debt. I wouldn't wish that upon anyone, but ultimately I think it's the proposer's decision, and the recipient should be courteous and appreciative of whatever size or price ring. :)
2006-12-12 11:13:37 · answer #6 · answered by spamneggzzz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My former finace' gave me a ring, telling me it was worth 4 times what it actually was. I was very young and totally clueless about jewelry. It is traditional to give the woman a ring with some value, to show that the mans intentions are honorable. If a man gives you a $100 ring when he makes $100,000 a year his intentions are NOT honorable.
2006-12-12 15:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by eastcoastdebra 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What person would want to know how much her future mate spent on their ring, unless they were self absorbed, and inconsiderate of their intended's financial situation. If they have to know, then they should go shopping together for this investment, see what kind of rings they admire, color of band, shape of stone, then the person doing the askiing has something to go by unless they want to totally surprise them then let them chose. It's meaningless if you put a price on it and it looses all the sentiment and love that was intended to go with this heartfelt question.
2006-12-12 15:40:04 · answer #8 · answered by MiMi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're making 100k or more a month, then you shouldn't be concerned about how much the ring is...I have seen rings anywhere from a few thousand to 10k+ being bought by middle income individuals. It is all about personal choice.
2006-12-12 14:13:22 · answer #9 · answered by VAWeddingSpecialist 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WOW, i have a 1200 dollar wedding ring and thought that was way to much, i told my fiancee that i don't even want to know what the engagement ring cost. i think it is about love not money and who cares what the ring cost it is about you life together not how big of a ring you can carry around.
2006-12-12 13:48:39 · answer #10 · answered by blah blah blah 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋