ok me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years...we are both still in high school and virginity is a HUGE deal to me and i KNOW i love him and i know he LOVES me but lately he hasnt been understanding that im just not ready to give it up...i understand how it can piss him off b/c he is 16 and he just doesnt get why i am this serious about it..and dont tell me to leave him ok im sick of hearing that...WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2006-12-12 11:02:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him how important it is to you, and tell him to take it or leave it. You guys have your whole lives, there's no need to rush anything (which I'm sure you know)... Just let him know that that's how you feel and he can accept it or not. That's really all you can do...
2006-12-12 11:06:18 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dealinfg with this issue will take sometime
which mean that u should make him how much it is important to u and he must try to respect this issue but the problem that u r facing that he is going to leave u if he is not really love u but he may wait if he is really respects u so make it his choose not urs let the days be the judge between u and him dont worry u will find out very soon
he is not mature to understand ur problem so he will try looking for the sex cuz this is what his age looking for
i hope im mistaken and he stay with u until u decided to make it
hope for u good life :)
2006-12-12 11:09:47 · answer #2 · answered by Dr.Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking 2 him 1 on 1, it depends if he's slow or witty, cause if he is slow then talk 2 him, but if u r really serious about it talk 2 him. maybe he knows wat ur trying 2 tell him but he thinks it's stupid. maybe u should tone it down a bit and not try 2 take this so seriously.
2006-12-12 11:09:09 · answer #3 · answered by ms_curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋