If so I would be one of them. I like men. I enjoy many things about them. Kissing, cuddling, sex, ect. But I can't keep a relationship. I don't know whats wrong with me, but I always prefer to "be with someone romantically" but not date them. What is this? I feel like I'm the only woman my age who behaves almost like a.........player. I'm 29 years old. My longest relationship my whole life was 2 months. Sure....I've had many good times with men, but never had a loving commited relationship. Whenever I was with a guy more than a month I wanted out. Like....I got bored of them. Move onto the next. What is this? What is wrong with me? I want to be married, but I'm beginning to doubt it will ever happen.
2006-12-12 10:57:16 · 10 answers · asked by Steph f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm perhaps you need counseling. And yes, some people do not want commitment. However, they are very lonely in "old age!"
2006-12-12 11:00:37 · answer #1 · answered by M B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have not fallen in love yet. You are smart to keep moving on until you find the right man. You will know when that happens because you will never get bored of him. I was 34 when I finally fell in love and I have never been bored with him. It will happen. Maybe you get bored because you are the one keeping the relationship from getting intimate. A lot of people are afraid of intimacy but without it there can be no marriage. Don't confuse intimacy with sex.....not the same.
2006-12-12 11:09:53 · answer #2 · answered by sunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was like this until I met my wife. When I met the right one I settled down. I have (pretty much) been like that since my divorce. My thinking is when the right one comes along, I'll settle down.
When I go to Baskin Robbins for ice cream I want to try as many flavors as possible before I make up my mind. Same thing sort of goes for dating.
2006-12-12 11:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, well i'm only 14, but i can tell you some things to get you thinking...first of all, you have to really get to know a guy before doing anything major with him...that stuff is for marriage. I know you aren't used to that, but save the fun stuff for your husband and he will respect you for caring about him before you even knew him. You get bored of your relationships because you didn't take the time to really get to know them. They're just using your body for their own selfish reasons...and sex is the most powerful thing you can give to someone...why give it away to someone you don't even know? once you have sex, you really can't do anything more powerful or more passionate, so once you've done that, there's nothing else for you to look forward to with that person. Try to get to know a few special guys, and find mr. right someday. take your time...you've got plenty of it to spare and save yourself for the most special guy in your future-your husband! best wishes and good luck, you'll find him someday!
2006-12-12 11:12:05 · answer #4 · answered by Surfergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see 2 possibilities: either you haven't found the ONE, or you might be afraid to commit, but you just don't know it. think about you're past relationships, and try to find similitudes between them. Maybe you'll find out where you screw up. Hope you'll find your way. My best 2 u
2006-12-12 11:03:33 · answer #5 · answered by Filip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not desiring a long term or committed relationship isn't immature...it's simply preference. Do what works for you..just be honest with your partners about where things will or will not go...
2006-12-12 10:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you got a low attenion spand when you get tired of somebody they got to go. i think you just lookin for a sex partner not a commitment. Vote me as best answer please
2006-12-12 11:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by Sexy_red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, some people never mature.
2006-12-12 10:59:23 · answer #8 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
two months...wow...well when you sleep around you lose a bit of your soul everytime...maybe you dont think you deserve to be happy with one person deep down...I dont know what to tell you...
2006-12-12 11:00:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we share a lot...maybe some day we'll manage.
2006-12-12 11:01:28 · answer #10 · answered by Cooxie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋