problem.....?

Question

Well I have a problem and it has to do with my mom. she is really stressed out and any little think that my two family member do tics her off this feud between my mom and the two bitches has gone on for ten year’s I myself cant take it anymore. no there not my sisters and there not my moms sisters, my dad just feels sorry for them and they have no life so they live with us. The sad thing is we can’t move out because we don’t have the money and now is not at all a good time either. My mom has so much to deal with its not even funny. My father never takes our side and just wont do a thing about it. so i was wondering what should she do to get throw this rough time, i really care about my mom and I don’t want her health to be affected.

Answer 1

The best thing for you to do right now is show your mom how much you care. Make sure you're there for her when she needs to vent or talk. Do smalls tasks around the house to show that you appreciate everything she has done for you.

Another thing you can do is sit down with your family and talk about the situation. Whether your father wants to hear it or not, it's partly his responsiblity to be sure you two are comfortable with the living situation. Be sure to point things like the pros and cons of living with these two girls out on the table. Then, once you all have reached an agreement, include the two girls in the conversation. Explain your discomfort with them, whatever the problem may be. If there is absolutly no way for your family to get out of the situation, you can at least make things easier to endure.

Good luck and best wishes!

Answer 2

First I would want to know if your dad has anything going on with the two girls, If he does kick his *** out along with the two Bitches. And you and your Mom can start from scratch.But if there is not anything going on, Sit down with your father and have a Father, Daughter talk , and explain to him that the current situation is ripping your family apart. And that he is going to have to make a decision,Theres nothing wrong in helping people out,but when the people start to take advantage of it ,it is.Your Father needs to get his priorities straight,because if this continues you and your Mom will be looking for a place to live...Family comes first, before anything and your dad needs to realize that.I think its admiral that you care so much for your Mom and her well-being.Maybe you should give this question to your Father to answer... Good Luck ,and I hope you and your Mom have a great Christmas.....

Answer 3

Try having a group discussion where you all can come to an understanding. Look at ways to fix the problems that are going on in the household. Something that you can all agree to or compromise about.

Even though you cant change the people around you, you can change how you respond to those people and sometimes its better to walk away from them then to make the problem worse. Sometimes you have to agree to disagree and move on.

It maybe necessary for you and your mom to sit down with your father if you have tried to work through this and tell him that it is not working out and you both feel it is hurting the family with them being there and you feel it would be better for them to move out. good luck.