usually i dont realize that i do this but i like to flirt its just my thing.....is it wrong if i flirt wit my friends bf's?...behind their backs and in front of them?...i dont mean to i just do it......i have a lot of male friends and i think i flirt wit all of them....wat does that say about me
2006-12-12 10:39:12 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it is common for girls to flirtt, is in our genes...how much to flir? and to whom and when? is what we have to be careful with.
Doing it the wrong way without control, can ruin
your social life, so if you realized that you have this weakness, learn to control it. This doesn't say that u are a whore or a bad person, it only means that you are friendly, natural, and very secure and in touch with your inner you, in another words, that you are very confident, and will get whatever you want in life, and you will succeed if you know how to use flirt, in a positive and constructive way.
So be careful, and don't be ashame of yourself.
2006-12-12 10:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by Gabriela R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with flirting, I guess. If you do it in front of your best friend and she doesn't say anything then it's obvious that it's something that doesn't bother her. I luv flirting 2! It can be harmless sometimes. Just know that there is a certain "line" that in some cases that just can NOT be crossed. Be sure you know where those lines lay when dealing with whoever because they vary from person to person.
2006-12-12 10:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, it is wrong. How would you like for your friends to flirt with your boyfriend? That can easily cause problems between you and your friend. Plus the guy could take it the wrong way, and could think you are coming on to him.
I'm serious, stop that. It is dead wrong. You can be nice, but stop flirting. And don't tell me that you cannot control it, because I know better.
Find your own boyfriends, and flirt with them, not other girls' boyfriends!
2006-12-12 10:43:03 · answer #3 · answered by peekie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It says that you're a flirt. Plain and simple. You like getting attention from guys, but not too much attention. As for the friend thing, you need to back off. If this guy is catching on to your flirty vibes, he might leave your friend for you. This will most definitely ruin your friendship.
2006-12-12 10:42:15 · answer #4 · answered by Michael 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I do it too...it's harmless and they know it...my friends bfs even flirt back and my friends don't mind...we all know it's all in fun and there is no intent behind it at all...
As long as you're not stepping on anyone's toes (so to speak) then be yourself...just be aware that it might trouble some people and if it does, then pay attention to what you are doing around them...
2006-12-12 10:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You'll end up flirting with the wrong person someday, then you'll be going to the police because the guy that you flirted with, took it as something else, then forced himself on you. In my mind, you'll get what you deserve in the end, so enjoy the flirting.
2006-12-12 10:43:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
DON'T FLIRT WITH YOUR FRIENDS BOYFRIENDS!
I know how it feels to see a supposed "friend" flirt with my FIANCE right in front of my face.
She has lost friends because of her attitude & when I see her I want to beat the hell out of her.
I don't know if she's dumb and doesn't realise she does it or if she is a complete skank and it's her intention but she needs to be slapped into line.
If you EVER consider yourself a FRIEND then you won't flirt with your friends partner, if you continue to flirt with them, then you deserve everything that gets thrown at you, hell, you DON'T even DESERVE FRIENDS!
Have some respect for your friends AND for yourself!
2006-12-12 10:48:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its wrong to flirt with ur friends bf, would u like it if another girl flirts with Ur bf? When your close to him try to control ur self.
2006-12-12 10:45:19 · answer #8 · answered by RoseMary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with it. If your bf doesn't know the difference between harmless and serious flirtation...he's an idiot. As far as what it says about you would have varrying opioins. Some would say you're a very open and friendly person, others would say that you're a skank.
2006-12-12 10:43:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am just like you. Outgoing funny and people tell me i wear provocative clothes. It caused me to lose girlfriends and have a lot of problems but it is just part of my personality. Make a joke like 'gosh, I must seem like such a flirt but really I am not' maybe then they will realize that it is part of your personality. But try to tone it down you might lose friends and give the guys the wrong idea.
2006-12-12 10:42:49 · answer #10 · answered by leilacara 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋