I'm 25, short, very skinny (eight stone), average looking but i can never find a girl. I never meet anyone i like and i have a busy social life. Non of my friends have single friends and i never meet girls when i go out. I'm always on the look out, aren't overly confident, aren't overly shy but i never meet anyone i like. When i do they never like me or they're too tall, or i just can't imagine a reason that they'd like me. Girls just aren't looking for a short skinny guy, it's the biggest turn off in the books. It's tearing me up and i'm ready to kill myself. Any last resorts?
2006-12-12 10:04:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop being picky u moron
2006-12-12 10:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by crunchymonkey 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Hey maybe you just haven't found the right one yet. some people are too much into sterotyping. People that are great on the inside should not matter about the outer appearance. I say this because my husband is a big guy but a sweetheart and a great father and husband. To some it may be a turn off but we have passion and lots of love and that to me is better than what he may look like to others. Don't think of it as you it is the girls that haven't liked you! If you know you are a great person then someone else will see that too. I would suggest going somewhere different then you usually go. Maybe go and volunteer somewhere it is a great way to meet people. I hope things work out for you!
2006-12-12 10:10:24 · answer #2 · answered by momdadand4kids 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Chill, man. I can assure you that absolutely EVERYONE feels like this at some stage in their lives! It's not just you.
It sounds like you're doing good at having a social life and mixing with people. Why not try moving out of your usual circle, maybe try a new fitness course like Karate or swimming, or take up a new hobby that involves you with new people. You can meet lots of interesting people this way, and it's good to have a change of social scene once in a while.
Relax, the worst thing you can do is worry about not having a girl. Plenty of girls will appreciate meeting a virgin, especially if you are mature, kind, confident, etc. Enjoy life now, even when you don't have a girl, and your happiness with your life will be a magnet to people round you.
I hope this helps :) Good luck.
2006-12-12 10:11:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
**** man...i'm having a bit of a drought myself right now but I know the problem is with me. My face got smashed up really badly a few years ago and my confidence was lost but now it's returning I know that it wont be long til I meet someone. Try not to dwell on it too much andhave a few drinks to relax your nerves but be careful not to drink too much.It sounds like you're not making that connection. Maybe your sights are set too high..I dont know ...you'll have to work out what works for you but just relax and have the attitude that if it happens it happens and if not then dont worry cos theres nothing more off putting than desperation and girls can smell it a mile away!
2006-12-12 10:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by returnofkarlos 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey buddy cheer up.
The right girl is out there for you.
Maybe you are looking in the wrong place.
Are you religious at all?
Try to find a good church...
If that is just not the case, keep your chin up, you are 25, you have plenty of time to find the right girl.
Know that there is someone for EVERYONE.
You may just bump into her unexpedly one day, and SPARKS will fly for both of you.
Do not give up.
I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason.
And there is a reasonn you have not found her yet.
She is there, and you will find eachother soon.
DJ
2006-12-12 10:34:33 · answer #5 · answered by gemseeker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just relax. You are trying too hard. When the time is right a girl will just walk into your life. Maybe to help things along, join something. Some kinda group, club, whatever and meet new people. Good luck
2006-12-12 10:08:59 · answer #6 · answered by Mz.H 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure there is someone out there for you. Just remember good things are worth the wait. Mrs. Right will come along -- she might be right under your nose and you just haven't even realized it yet. In the meantime, check out this website... www.plentyoffish.com . My best friend found her boyfriend on there and they've been together for almost a year.
2006-12-12 10:10:09 · answer #7 · answered by legalstudent25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said
"i just can't imagine a reason that they'd like me"
maybe you are looking for someone who you think would only be interested in you based on physical attributes, love is about a lot more than something based on visual attraction.
I'd say try to get past that stage and maybe when you get to know someone they will see past that superficial lavel and get to like you as a complete person.
2006-12-12 10:11:56 · answer #8 · answered by Alan B 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Im 21 and never had one either man , im skinny and 5 feet 11 about 10.5 stone . Its anoying isent it and then you see some looser who looks worse and dates a model oh and beats her up .
2006-12-13 01:03:51 · answer #9 · answered by badass-mofu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to build up your self confidence! If you look at yourself like your describing and dont think no one is gonna like you then women are gonna pick up on those feelings.
Work on the things that you feel bad about. Try a new look. If your concsious about your height maybe try a shoe or boot that will make you appear taller. Concentrate on your good qualities!
Once you start feeling better about yourself and have more confidence women will see it and youll feel better about yourself. good luck!
2006-12-12 10:18:35 · answer #10 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats where you go wrong low confidents!! if there is one thing a girl likes it confidents you aint got it you aint gettin a girl. Mate just get your mates together and go out thinkin im the best and im ganna let the world see it.
Good luck solder happy huntin!!!
And DONT go killin yourself you hear!!!
2006-12-12 10:11:04 · answer #11 · answered by dan T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋