While I like this gril but I do not know how to ask her out or if to ask her out I mean we do talk a lot and we get a each other but I do not know if I should ask her out HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-12 09:59:38 · 41 answers · asked by Big Mike 672 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start flirting with her a little bit and sending her "signs" in your dail conversations. DOnt be obvious though, you have to manipulate your words so that her responses will make sense to your query.
2006-12-12 10:01:56 · answer #1 · answered by Sean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big Mike.... Just be confident and ask her if she likes to go out to grab some dinner or something take her somewhere nice and just tell her how you feel about her that you are interested in her and ask her what she thinks of you? at least this way you will both find out about each other. who knows because she might have feelings for you and she might feel the same way as you and she doesn't know how to ask you. so the best way is to be straight forward with her and if she felt different then atleast you'll know...
2006-12-12 10:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by supersteveee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start out with asking her out for coffee, smoothie or hot chocolate. it'll be easier than asking her out on a real date. it'll give you two a few hours to talk and if things go well you can invite her to hang out somewhere or go to a movie. (But if you don't have chemistry and it gets really awkward, you can say you have to be somewhere at a certain time)...
hopefully this leads to a REAL date and you won't have to be so nervous because you've already gone out once!
Make the first move if you like her, but make it something simple and comfortable. What girl can refuse a nice afternoon over coffee with a guy?
2006-12-12 10:05:27 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl. Some girls like it when guys are all romantic and some girls just like to be asked out in a note. You could just go up to her and ask her out .. there are a lot off ways.
2006-12-12 10:02:01 · answer #4 · answered by love_alw_693 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say the famopus words "WE NEED TO TALK". Then take her apart and start saying nice things like: "You know, you're a nice girl and you have beautiful eyes" she'll probably send you the right signals and whend the light is green ask her out
2006-12-12 10:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by ärî$hå¥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you are very nervous. When you guys talk next, ask her if you want to take her out to see a movie or something or if you want to hang out together somewhere. It does appear to me like the girl is really into you. You should go for it and ask her out on a date!
2006-12-12 10:03:29 · answer #6 · answered by Kimberly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh come on. I knwo you can! Give yourself a little help. How I would like to get asked out is by telling a friend to ask her and then they return the answer or you can ask her out yourself by going to her locker. Goodluck! I hope she says YES!
2006-12-12 10:01:50 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you find yourself alone with her. tell her you have a question for her. shell say what. and you say do you want to go out sometime. if she says no don't make a big deal. shrug it off. making a big deal or questioning her will makie her more distant from you. and don't act differently around her. act the way you always have. otherwise she will pick up the change. this is if she says no though
2006-12-12 10:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by billywxyz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apparantly, u have 2 questions, 1) how and 2) if u should. if u should is your own problem. if u like her, of course!!!!! if not, dont. anyway, how to is different. there are many many many many ways but my fave is to walk up to them suddenly and then in front of everyone, ask em out. NOTNOTNOT unless ur that kind of person. just call her up once u get home and "gather up ur courage". u do have that right. i find that one way is to bite something hard, like metal. :P no candy.
2006-12-12 10:06:26 · answer #9 · answered by dreamgirlmystic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well mike, just go for it. start a conversation, make her laugh and smile, then say hey would you like to go out to a movie or dinner. or you could do it a sweet way and ask her in a note , and have her check mark a yes or no box, watch out for the maybes...they suck.lol.....go for it!
2006-12-12 10:03:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋