me and his guy are friends and today we flirted like usual but he mentioned he saw one of his frineds in a thong and she looked good in it. I like him more than a frined and he knows that .We hang out after our classes and he comes over to my dorm all the time to chill.was he just trying to see my reaction?
2006-12-12 09:51:38 · 26 answers · asked by Only1 Love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes he was prolly doing it to see how you would react sometimes boys do this to see if the girl will get jealous....... I would make a move on him and that way you know for sure and will have the boy you want...
Good Luck and I hope all goes your way and you get what you want....
2006-12-12 09:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he would be trying to see your reaction. Maybe the trying to make sure you are not the kind of person that would get made if he were to hang out Whit a another woman. I know how you feel I was in a simmer position has you where. So what every happens between you and him. I wish you good luck.
2006-12-12 09:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, He is trying to feel out the situation. He wanted to see if you would say anything in the ways of " you should ask her out if you are interested" or something relaying to that.He only said it cause he isnt sure you like him more than a friend.A friend would be looking to see him hook up with someone else.A person that is into him and wants to date him would say " well, maybe I should let you see me in one and see if you like what you see better". Now that would give him the sign that you want him as well. Or just come out and say "I wish you looked at me like that" I am sure in a minute he would tell you how he does and really likes you.
2006-12-12 09:58:56 · answer #3 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he ovbiously likes you, but also see's you as that girl he can talk to about anything. Not realizing that we don't always want to know everything, especially with feelings like you have for him. I guess, he could've been testing you. But most likely he's just being a guy and not realizing how what he says, could make you feel. If I were you I would talk to him about it, or if he's testing you...give him a reaction that he can react back to. If that makes any sense. Best of luck.
2006-12-12 09:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by mda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may have been trying to make you a bit jealous, but bottom line he's a college or university guy, so that means all he thinks about is sex. Morning, noon, night, sex, sex, sex. So get used to that! LOL If you show him that it bothers you, he will most likely keep pulling little things like that to see your reaction, so don't give him the satisfaction of one.
Or you can bust him on it flat out and just ask him why he says things like that to you when he knows you like him.
2006-12-12 09:57:50 · answer #5 · answered by West_End_Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men aleays look, it's just how they are. It doesn't mean that he likes her more or wouldn't want something with you. I remember one time I was on a date with a guy and he says "Can u help me..do you think that girl is wearing a bra?" Boy was I mad. But he was/is a nice guy and sometimes it is just the way they think. If you were his girlfriend and he said stuff like then then I would worry.
2006-12-12 09:55:18 · answer #6 · answered by leilacara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean? Hes not allowed to talk about other girls in front of you. He hasnt commited anything yet. Hes still a free man.
Other than that, maybe he wants you to wear a thong for him.
2006-12-12 09:54:22 · answer #7 · answered by Sean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, sweetie, but for him to just say that? Especially if he knows you like him more than friends. Usually when guys know you like them and they havent asked you out is because they like to flirt without any commitment whatsoever so they can always have a way out you know? They know and they feel they have us in the palm of their hands.. If he says that i dont know about you, but to me, its a turn off because that is total disrespect towards you. Sweetie, just stay friends..
2006-12-12 09:55:35 · answer #8 · answered by ahuga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was just trying to see your reaction. But to make sure, why don't you ask him? You say you're really good friends and friends are supposed to trust each other. Go ahead and ask him what's going on. That's what I would do.
2006-12-12 10:00:11 · answer #9 · answered by ärî$hå¥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be, but yall need to get it out in the open and talk about your feelings, cause it can ruin a friendship if you dont. He may be just talking to you like he would one of his buddies thinking that you understand that is how he feels. Say something now...
2006-12-12 09:54:51 · answer #10 · answered by luckygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋